What makes a friend a true friend?, help me Options

[kim92f]

Hi people. Just want to know whats make a friend a true friend? I'm asking this becuase I have 3 best friends but they don't seem to ever trust me , when I trust them. They also seem to not hang out with me when there is a new girl in class.Anyone have the same problem.

This post has been edited by kim92f: Apr 2 2006 5 58 AM

[Sammy Mac]

Hi people. Just want to know whats make a friend a true friend? I'm asking this becuase I have 3 best friends but they don't seem to ever trust me , when I trust them. Anyone have the same problem.

poor Kim are u sure they do trust u?

[* xXx Emmalyn xX...]

what did they do to make yu think this?

[Hyper_jess90]

what makes a true friend is some1:
who can trust u 120%
who share everything with you
who laughs with you even if they don't get your joke
who loves you like a sister etc...

what they do 2 make you feel like this? talk to them and ask.

[Ngoc_An]

hmmm..
I have two true friends so I think I know what I'm talking about

-A true friend is a friend who will never leave you alone when you are feeling down and when you just want to push everybody, even your friend away.
-A true friend will support you and cheer for you when another person is being mean to you.
-A true friend is a person you can call to in the middle of the night just because you want to talk with somebody.
-A true friend is a friend who knows you better than those person who are around you.
-A true friend should be the one who trust you the most

This post has been edited by Ngoc_An: Apr 1 2006 10 43 PM

[kim92f]

poor Kim are u sure they do trust u?

Yes, because one of my friend told me who my best friend like and she also told me that she doesn't want me to know.

what did they do to make yu think this?

Same as up there. Also, I remember in 3 grade one of my best friend dich me to play with a new girl at school. Then whenever that girl is not at school she would then hang out with me. Then on the first day of 4 grade, I asked her to seat next to me and she said yes. I was so happy but soon found out that the only reason she agreed was becasue that new girl have move. Then in 5 grade the same thing happen again. A new girl cam, she dich me, then hang out with me when she is not at school. In middle school she and I went to different schools. I made another best friend in 7 grade. One day after school I was waiting for my mom with her, then this girl came out with pizze and let us have it. There were three pieces, one for my brother, one for my best friend and one for me. But later this girl that my best friend had started hanging out came out. My best friend saw her and jump up and down like she haven't seem her for years. Then the next thing I know she put my slice of pizze in front of her face and ask if she want it. It took her like 10 seconds later to remember that it was mines and asked "oh do you still want it." I was so crushed that I just walked away from her.

Hope that it is now confusing you and just want to say thanks to all you for listening to me complain. I feel much better noe because I haven't told any1 about this. So thanks.

what makes a true friend is some1:
who can trust u 120%
who share everything with you
who laughs with you even if they don't get your joke
who loves you like a sister etc...

what they do 2 make you feel like this? talk to them and ask.

Reasons #1,3,and 4 is something that I give to my best friend but they don't seem to give it to me. I don't remember much about my best friend in elementary school bnut my best friend from middle school never laugh at my jokes. If I tell her something that I think is funning she would tell me that its dump and stupit.

hmmm..
I have two true friends so I think I know what I'm talking about

-A true friend is a friend who will never leave you alone when you are feeling down and when you just want to push everybody, even your friend away.
-A true friend will support you and cheer for you when another person is being mean to you.
-A true friend is a person you can call to in the middle of the night just because you want to talk with somebody.
-A true friend is a friend who knows you better than those person who are around you.
-A true friend should be the one who trust you the most

Thanks for answering. I just want to say that you are so lucking to have to best friends that really care for you and that your best friends are very lucking to have you as one.

[t__Ma]

lol. i have tried somethign worse~ my best frds betrayed me and lied to me...set up a trap for me to fall in it. and after they yelled at me....yell is the good way of saying it. but its more of B*tching at me. >< T^T so sad~!

to me a good frd is someone who supports you, trusts u, lends you their shoulder when u need to cry on them, lends you their ears so they'll listen to ur problems. Trust and caring is very important too.

[baby.flakes]

i had dat experience in yr 4...
kant 4get it..
i think maybe u shud try hang out wif different ppls..
if dey dont give u da trust and dere not dere 4 u wen u need dem i dont think they count as besties..
u mite see them as bestfriends but dey mite not.. they take u 4 granted u shud jus leave dem.. dey dont deserve u... dere r many ppl out dere worth ur trust and they what trust u bac n b dere 4 u...
no matter wot jus remember ur af buddies r heres alwaiis supporting u

[Hyper_jess90]

Reasons #1,3,and 4 is something that I give to my best friend but they don't seem to give it to me. I don't remember much about my best friend in elementary school bnut my best friend from middle school never laugh at my jokes. If I tell her something that I think is funning she would tell me that its dump and stupit.

ur friend shuddn't say that they r stupid and dumb because that's jus hurtful!!! i think she's using you just because that new girl woz'nt around! i think you shud try and hang with other people so then you don't hav 2 rely on jus 1 person. if it happens again, jus remind urself that u got us because we'll back you up!!!

[kim92f]

lol. i have tried somethign worse~ my best frds betrayed me and lied to me...set up a trap for me to fall in it. and after they yelled at me....yell is the good way of saying it. but its more of B*tching at me. >< T^T so sad~!

to me a good frd is someone who supports you, trusts u, lends you their shoulder when u need to cry on them, lends you their ears so they'll listen to ur problems. Trust and caring is very important too.

thanks

i had dat experience in yr 4...
kant 4get it..
i think maybe u shud try hang out wif different ppls..
if dey dont give u da trust and dere not dere 4 u wen u need dem i dont think they count as besties..
u mite see them as bestfriends but dey mite not.. they take u 4 granted u shud jus leave dem.. dey dont deserve u... dere r many ppl out dere worth ur trust and they what trust u bac n b dere 4 u...
no matter wot jus remember ur af buddies r heres alwaiis supporting u

ur friend shuddn't say that they r stupid and dumb because that's jus hurtful!!! i think she's using you just because that new girl woz'nt around! i think you shud try and hang with other people so then you don't hav 2 rely on jus 1 person. if it happens again, jus remind urself that u got us because we'll back you up!!!

You guys made me feel so loved. Thanks.

[GneL]

1. trust worthy
2. straight forward(point out wat problem u have so tat u can change)
3. not a hypocryte to u
4. sincere to u

[bony-hao]

If u think they r ur best frn and acted in that way then there should be some misunderstanding against u people...We are human we can commits mistake ' ... Tried to sorted that out because i firmly believe that bst frn dont act liked that.. If there is nothing then u hav being roaming with wrong frn... good/best frn dont act that way..

[Guest_DemonIceman_*]

Poor Kim... I know exactly how you feel. An absolute true friend might not even be your best friend, but it's someone who'd stand behind you, and support you, even if the world's against you. Those guys are pretty hard to find these days, and when I was younger, I didn't believe in friends like that. True friends are very very rare, very much like someone who you'd find perfect in every way. You shouldn't be upset because you haven't found a true friend. Although, it seems like whoever you're friends with don't respect you much. My suggestion is to chill with other people, people who are nicer. Usually in schools, there's a group of people who'd accept anyone like them, and would back them up too. Those, are the closest you can find to a true friend.

[SW_MYLOVE]

a true friend is always there for you, always there to listen about your thoughts, never teases you about anything, and is just.. a friendd

This post has been edited by MD&&QE: Apr 3 2006 12 03 AM

[Sammy Mac]

[quote name='kim92f' date='Apr 2 2006 3 19 PM' post='2210446']
Yes, because one of my friend told me who my best friend like and she also told me that she doesn't want me to know.

Hi Kim

So u found out from another friend that your best friend has kept it secret from you about someone she likes. I must say that isnt very kind of a best friend to kept secrets. I can see why u think she doesnt trust u? Maybe if it's a guy? could she be worried u might take him from here? I was just wondering if this friend is a boy or girl. Maybe ur best freind will come running to you oneday when her new friends ditch her... I hope things work out for u

[kim92f]

thanks you guys. even though i don't know any of you in here, you guys give me support.

[Sammy Mac]

no problem Kim hope u doing ok

[Guest_DemonIceman_*]

If you need someone to talk to, we're all here for you. We got your back and we care for you.

[deathnight287]

i think wat makes a friend a true friend is wen they communicate wit each other really well. sometimes it is hard to talk and stuff. there is a majority of pplz tat talks about their bf/gf to their truely friends. so i dont really noe wat makes a true friend.

[kim92f]

Last night I had a dream about my two best friend. One from Elementary and one of Middle. I don't emember much about the dream but I did remember that when my elementary saw me she say OMG a few times. She say that becuase she haven't seem me in about 3 years. But soon after that she engore me and left.

[Guest_DemonIceman_*]

O.o it's am omen! It's telling you your friend will do that to you again, so best find true friends, or at least, better friends.

[kim92f]

O.o it's am omen! It's telling you your friend will do that to you again, so best find true friends, or at least, better friends.

ok i'll try.


I am at my friend house right now using her computer. Some of my friend and one of my best friend are here. But they are all outside while I'm in here. Just want to ask does anyone know any quiz that I can give to my friend to see if they really are my friends. To me families and friendship are very important. So hopefully someone can help me.