Should I move on? Options

[Guest_TaroGirl_*]

K, idk what to do? I think I like this guy but he doesn't like me. He gave me his phone number when we have to exchange phone numbers for study purpose. It's really bothering me, I tried many times to stop interact with this person. I kept texting and calling him though. I think he is not interested in me. I tried to move on, but I can't help it.
What do you guys think?

[Guest_Guest_Taro_*_*]

I saw this guy last year and think he is quite cute, but I never expected to know him. This year I got to know him through one of my friends. I just find out that he is so super cute that I can't resist looking at his pictures or seeing him. He gave me his phone number because we needed to exchange our studying stuffs. He never text or call me if there isn't something he needs, which he almost never called or texted me. I don't really know if he is interested or not. At a point, I think he does, then the next time I don't. I hang out with one of my really close guy friends all the time, and people think that we are dating, but we are really not. So I was thinking could it be because he saw us together so he assumed that I have a bf? Then my friend said that don't worry, if he likes you he will tell you (stuffs like that). And like Idk, this guy I am interested in doesn't do anything back. So I tried to move on, but every time that I tried to move on, I would see him or he would text me or post something on my facebook on that day. It is just so weird, I know I don't like him yet, I am just very attracted to his look.
Is there something wrong with me?
Should I move on?
What should I do?
Thank you for reading, your time is appreciated.

[OhDamn]

You do like him. If you were "just attracted to his look" you wouldn't be here posting this or wondering about him. Anyway, assuming he does think you have a bf and ergo is reluctant to make any moves, show him you don't.

[Kingbeing]

You could ask him directly, and waiting his answer~~~

Judge it finally~

[Chatterer]

Why don't you, uh, flirt with him a bit and observe his response? Maybe that'll give him a hint, or at least a light nudge.

[Guest_ode_*]

You might be interested in the guy but what makes you think he could be interested in you too? Did he do anything special for you? Giving phone numbers, exchanging study stuffs, texting and posting on facebook are common things people do all the time.

[Guest_Guest_Taro_*_*]

He gave me his phone number, but I think it's only for studying purpose. I am the one who always talks to him first. I post on his facebook wall, and text him first.

[featherlight]

I suggest you just try to get to know him better as friends for now. And if he starts to spark up interest in you, who knows? But don't force him. The more you try harder the less a guy really wants to go for a girl. (but make sure your hints are pretty obvious though lol some guys are really clueless)

[Guest_Guest_*]

is he responding to ur calls and text?

[Guest_TaroGirl_*]

is he responding to ur calls and text?

Yes, he does. However, when he does reply, it's usually a one word or one sentence reply, it sounds like he doesn't want to reply.
But then two days ago, he suddenly texted me if I will be attending his class or not when I mentioned that I might be attending his class a week (7 days) ago.

[grimbeaver]

well, r u trying to move on? if u r, try calling somebody else instead of him. so tell ur friend that u need help to move on. whenever u try to call him, call ur friend isntead

[Nitikie]

I suggest that you indeed move on. He's not interested and he's not playing hard to get if that's what you're wondering. In most cases, playing hard to get is just a turn off for people so it doesn't work the way people may think it does in dramas.

Study purposes and so far, it's stayed that way with his texts and calls. Just leave it to that as a study partner and nothing else. If he did want to get to know you as in was interested, he wouldn't be strictly to just study stuff.

[seeker123]

yeah doesn't sound like he's interested at all. You're thinking too much

[revenge_l0bster]

*long sigh* Guys sure are fascinating and intriguing creatures, sometimes I reckon one of their appeal is that they just keep the female population guessing. Personally, growing up with two older brothers, I believe that its better to be assertive and suss out your 'real' feelings about this guy. Look for signs that show that he might be into you. However, signs can also be misinterpreted, so I guess the easiest way to know if he likes you or not without directly asking him (for fear of rejection) would be to trust your gut/instincts.


Just for the record- I DONT think that your weird or that there is something wrong with you, feelings and emotions are what makes us human. My guess is that there are probably a thousand..No wait.. A million people like you experiencing the same thing that you are now (Young, Old, Female or Male).

Anyways all the best to you..
I trust that you will make a better judgement, whether it is to move on or to pursue your feelings.


This post has been edited by revenge_l0bster: Nov 9 2009 5 29 AM

[Guest_TaroGirl_*]

*long sigh* Guys sure are fascinating and intriguing creatures, sometimes I reckon one of their appeal is that they just keep the female population guessing. Personally, growing up with two older brothers, I believe that its better to be assertive and suss out your 'real' feelings about this guy. Look for signs that show that he might be into you. However, signs can also be misinterpreted, so I guess the easiest way to know if he likes you or not without directly asking him (for fear of rejection) would be to trust your gut/instincts.


Just for the record- I DONT think that your weird or that there is something wrong with you, feelings and emotions are what makes us human. My guess is that there are probably a thousand..No wait.. A million people like you experiencing the same thing that you are now (Young, Old, Female or Male).

Anyways all the best to you..
I trust that you will make a better judgement, whether it is to move on or to pursue your feelings.

Thank you very much. I will remember your words. I think I might have come up with my decision. I will see him today again for notes, I guess I have to make my last decision after that. Thank you so muh.

[revenge_l0bster]

Im glad to be of any help. All the best to you