Am I flip Flopping, Is it wrong? Options

[MISS DRAMA]

I'm going to be honest here...

I'm not quite sure whether it's right or wrong. I have a lot of male friends than girl friends. My relationship with my guy friends is very strong, because we flirt, have fun and joke around. Of course, we all are singles and only find a time to just hang out and chill. For instances, like catch movies together (just him and me), meet for coffee or other events. It's just not one guy, but it happens often with the other guys. Its not like I'm pimping around, or looking for anything sexual. It's just that when I hung out with the guys, we both just have a nice chat about life and just chill like friends. I guess, it's sort of like I'm talking to many different guys and seeing them differently at once. The thing is that the guys might of known one another somehow, but im not sure. But hey, nothing is going on between me and the guys.

Well I had a really bad experienced last weekend, and i realized i need to change this habit. How can I stop this habit? Should i start rejecting their offers and invitations?

[ynot]

No, Guys and Girls can be just friends as long as you do not have sex with any one in the group. After the sex, there will not be just friends any more.

[JungMe7]

there should be no problems as long as you don't take any of the relationships too far. If you start to date one of them, then it is obviously going to get weird when you are around them. Just be careful of what you are doing, and try not to send out the wrong signals.

[Akiiye]

If you treat them all as your friends then its all okay; I agree with JungMe7, be careful of what you're doing ;]

[VainFella]

If you want to be friends with them, do accept their invites. But guys don't ask girls out without a reason! Anyways, don't make them feel that you like them when you hang out with them. It will save you trouble, if they confess or something.

[Pinkuu]

Maybe instead of going on one-to-one outings, maybe a whole group of you can go then it wouldn't seem as if you're trying to project the wrong message out to people.
I don't see it as a totallyy bad thing of what you're doing. But it might project the wrong image of yourself that's all.

[brilliance]

i dont see a problem. unless you're not saying something here. (hint: being too flirty and leading those guys on).

[Delishious ♥]

Just tell the guys straight out.
P: I think if yu like avoid them or reject, they`ll think yur playing "hard to get" O_o;:!!

[sk47z]

well i dun tink u need to change your habits.
for instance i like to hang out with guys more as well as i tink they're more straight forward compare to ladies whose's kinda complicated to cope with. no offence ya but maybe i'm more toward a straight forward n out going type. n i had bad experience hanging ard with girls. when too many ard there'll surely some issues going on within the group.
but with guys it's totally not a problem. ard 80-90% of my frens are guys to. n we do go out 1 to 1 for movies or dinners jus to chill out.
if your guys frens are close to u n knwo u well then i dun tink it's a problem unless liek others say they're after u or watever then u might give them a wrong impression tat they have a chance. so it's better for u to make things clear so that they dun misunderstand

[MISS DRAMA]

Thanks for all ya's responses..I appreciated! =)

[seeker123]

Well it seems to me you love the attention these guys are giving you. You like the mirky nature of the "hang outs". Seems like a date, but no it's just friends, but still have the fun flirt you get with guys. The problem is, you have many guys in this situation. It's pretty mirky, seems like some of the guys would think of it more as well and might be pursuing a relationship.

You should really make a clear stance, don't mix friendship with relationship stuff, you might end up hurting others. If you feel the guy is thinking of those 1 on 1 hangouts more like dates, then you should tell him you are just not thinking of that. If you yourself don't know, then well it's just gonna lead to trouble and you'll end up hurting others.

[Anime_UK]

Just when it comes to love, you shouldnt flip flop around. But just hanging with people is fine because its not a relationship.