He is taking advantage of me, I think he is using me Options

[Guest_Evonna_*]

I know this guy not long ago, and I started to develop feelings for him. I assume that he knows I like him so he seems like he is taking advantage of me. He will only contact me when there are homeworks due or needing something from me. And when I ask him to borrow something back, he tells me that he doesn't have it, or gave it to someone else and that person lost it. He does not seem to want to say hi to me either, he also seems to avoid me. So is he using me? What should I do? Am I stupid for being used?

[KiMcHi SaRaM]

Sounds like he is taking advantage of you - asking for homework, borrowing things, etc. Do yourself a favor: Find someone else. You don't need people this guy in your life.

[Nitikie]

uh...technically you wouldn't have a problem if you didn't allow him to do so. You allowed him because you like him and thought maybe it's a good impression. But there draws a line between friends and just plain using you. You should show or at least get a bit of anger or frustration from that and typically move on.

If people see that they have a chance to use people, they'll do it til they get rejected. Don't let them use your stuff unless you trust them, don't let them use your stuff just because you like them.

[Love. Music.]

to be fair ur letting him do all this to u because u let him copy hw
i mean if u just say "yea idk either" he wont do this anymore and then u would see how he is really. would he still talk to u? or would he just pretend ur not there?

[Chatterer]

He's using you. Whether he knows how you feel about him is questionable, but simply put, he is using you. So take control and refuse his requests for homework and stuff. THEN see what happens.

[Stranger88]

Well, if what he makes advantage of you doesn't have any serious effect on your interest (just let him copy your homework or lend him some sundries) and you really like to keep a close relation with him then, it's harmless to remain such chemistry with the guy you like a lot, I think.

Unless his requirements for you are undue or out of allowable limits, it's unnecessary to end up with him right now.

[Happy Wonton]

yea he is using you, you shouldn't let him do that and try to stop liking him, he is not worth it at all.

[MISS DRAMA]

hmp, if you think or believe that he is taking advantage of you then I say ignore him and walk away. Don't' give him any attention at all and treat him the way he's treating you.

[Dh135]

Simple, don't let him take advantage of you then. If he asks you for something, just ignore him or tell him straight up that you don't want to. If you continue to just give in to his every commands, he'll just continue.

[nadine]

he is using u and u need to make it stop
u have the power to say no!

if this continues
he will just used u over and over again

furthermore be strong and firm and ask all the things that he borrowed but never returned
if he cannot returned it
ask for refund
he needs to know that u are not easy to be used or bullied

[featherlight]

He may be using you for homework help... but what if he thinks you're willingly helping as a friend, because you want to? Perhaps unless you voice your distress at how he always only seems to contact you for help, he may always be in the dark. I think you should tell him, and if he gets angry about it, well then, you know what kind of person he's really like and then you can stop your feelings from developing any further.

[lenn]

Sorry but I think U are stupid to ask this question when U know the answer!

[julina]

all you need to do is ignore him. You have to continue your life without doing anything for him okay? Just do whatever you want to but Must ignore him... if he call you dont pick up or say ypou are not free... good luck

[Anime_UK]

That guy is totally taking advantage of you! He only calls you and chats to you when he wants something from you, when he doesn't need you then he ignores you and doesn't even say hi! People like that you shouldn't help them out in the future. Just ignore him!