I use to have a girlfriend that was always use to think that guys didn't like girls who are not virgins. She thought it was an ego thing. I want to know what you guys think out there.

I dont think many guys care.. nowadays... but if it was a serious relationship... that will end up getting married... I think all guys would prefer a virgin. But love conquers all right? so.. if the guy really likes that girl for who she is, and not what she had done in the past... or whatever... i guess it wont matter.

honestly i dont think it matters, to be together with some1 doesnt involve sex, its kind of a bonus thing. and what if shes not a virgin, does that make her a worse person?? think about it

Doesnt really matter if both parties love each other very much. If a girl can accept what U R, the guy should have no complains and also accept what the girl is.

virgins have no sex experience!

as a guy I would prefer a virgin... tight/fresh.

as a soul mate... nah it doesn't bother me.

Nowadays, there are not much virgin out there. But I don't think it matters if you really love the girl. But of course it's better if she's a virgin, but the only down side is in bed. A virgin is like a rookie in bed, she gotta learn everything from scratch. If you are a good teacher, that'll be fine, but I am sure some guys like it when the girl know what she's doing instead of having to tell her step by step.

certain couples adopt a don't ask, don't tell policy
with the thinking that what they did prior this relationship
is their business (or whatever mistakes they made etc)
and not to create any sort of judgement/ comparison
with their current half

it's real hard not to think about it once u know how many

You can say that, but your future wife gotta become your GF first right?? I don't suppose a guy will just pick a girl from the street and marry her. So it doesn't really work, but guys like to think like that.

i once watch mtv. and that dude heard this girl was a virgin. n he hated her and never wanted to talk to her. baaaah lol

in da family.......is gana be hell for her... so i would try to avoid..dat.. but if she stole my heart.. then i guess.. im gana have to make a run for it..."good bye mom, i'll still love u.. n follow yor dream, except... not wit our same racis"

It'd be nice if the girl was a virgin, then at least you know more about the type of girl..

I like conservative girls, so I do care if the girl is virgin or not

it doesn't really matter if the girls a virgin or not.. as long as i love her and she loves me. relationships ain't base on sex itself, even though i love doing it. anyway, at my age.. and finding a virgin girl is next to impossible.

well, me personally . i dont really care. im a christian now and i dont look at girls by the way they look .. well yeah not really.. they gotta be decent.. but if they were a virgin . sure it would be great.. decrease the risk of having STD, but if they werent. i really don't mind. i love the girl for who she is and not what she is.

yeh i wouldn't really care.. it's just the same as asking the girl would u care if i was a virgine or not... as long as u love each other then everything all gd~!

Not really... but virgin can go a long way... but i mean if your the posessive/serious kind of guy... then i can see virginity being something thats very important to someone that you love a lot

lol Good luck finding a virgin these days

I don't care if they virigin or not, be nice if they were I guess. The whole *first* time thing can be very special to some ppl though I guess.

It doesn't matter to me if they are a virgin or not, as long as she's not a slut.

But most of the hot girls out there tend to not be virgin anymore.

It's best if you have a gf/wife that enjoys sex. My ex doesn't seem to enjoy it so much and never initiates it. Make me kind of feel like she's obligated to do it because I want it. Kinda ruin the mood sometime. anyone else think the same?

Personaly , I don't really care lor as I am not a virgin afterall !! If my gf is a virgin when I first met her.....................woohoo........that will be better !!!

despite the secularity of our society nowadays, i think this issue is still very much rooted in your personal belief,or what you will call religion,conventionally...

as far as i know, pre-marital sex is a definite no-no for certain religion like christianity, catholics, muslim etc..so in such cases, the answer to the above question is yes ie guys do care...but on the other hand, free thinkers, as their nominal name implies, may not care as much....

if one tries to omit religion from the picture, then the original question will simply be reduced to one of preference ie if u really like the girl, who cares abt the virginity part...u know like the song by bsb, as long as u love me...and like other things abt love being immortal, eternal blah blah...well u know the rest..

wow.. that's a bit harsh .. what if you reallly reallly liked the girl but she's not a virgin?? i agree with a lot of people who posted on here.. virgins ARE hard to find.. so good luck finding one!

hmm would be nice to be a virgin..if just a fling then doesn't matter at all

just dont liek the idea of other ppl being in the wife

If a guy doesn't care, it's a LIE! You always want your woman never been touch before. It's a guy thing. But different person measure it differently. If you need to think about this question, you definitely care.

i agree with Rippy that ur bf/gf does need to be a virgin love can conqueor everything. But if u found yourself a virgin, grab on to he/her as it's quite hard to find 1 nowadays (personal thinking). '

Older you are, less you care. I don't even think it is a good idea to marry someone who is virgin but she/he probably will treat later on during the marriage. Better explore and test everything before get marry.

i don't mind of the girl im with is a virgin or not, as long as she wasn't 1 of those girls... who sleep with like.. everyone u know... o.O

I think that if the girl was a virgin, it would be a little more serious because you are the one who is taking the girl's virginity away. i don't really mind if they are virginity, but i don't like girls who have a strong sex experience.. too naughty for me

people before might care, but nowadays, its hard to find someone thats a virgin. i mean i guess if u really like the girl and wants to be with her, it would be a plus that she's a virgin but it would also not have any negative effect even if she's not.

pros and cons...
u can look at it both ways... but if its not marriage ... than a non virgin would be a better partner!!

why do we care so much on that? wat i think is we should focus on the inside, the heart i mean. if u have a girlfriend that is a "V" but her actions are like tomboy type but u know she a "v". would u still wan her? or would u rather wan a girl may not be a "v" but she is
good in everything, everything that u can think off. what do ya think?

well... to some extend i care....
but it doesn't really matter
but if you really really like the girl... you would want her to be one i guess....
cause (this is sorta messed up for me) whenever i think of a girl not being a virgin... and you're gonna have sex with her
i sorta like feel as if your penis gets into contact with another guy's penis because it touched the same spot....
i know it's absurd.... it's like an internal feeling that contratics with my own logic lol

For me is not important. The most important is the current and future. If both are fall in love, sure the thing past around her will not affected relationship between both of you.

man this is 21 century. in western socialy i don't think you can get one anymore.. and plus I don't think that is much of an issue.. well if you have that's a bonus if not .. if you love her man you don't care about that stuff.

i keep seeing, "i dont mind because virgins are hard to find these days" but, doesn't that show that you do indeed mind? its like you mind, but you don't care for it alot because its "hard to come by."

if one r playboy....he play too much....still wanna find virgin?

if one r good boy...never hv sex b4....it will be fair if both r virgin....

i dunno really
as long as i love her, i guess its fine
lol

Ofcourse guys like girls to be virgins, but that is typical. They can't stand the idea that she made love to someone else. Pure ego. If you aren't virgin yourself you can't demand that she has to be a virgin. And if you really like the girl, would you pass because she isn't a virgin anymore? What she did in the past, doesn't concern you. Be happy what you have each other now...

wellllllll it really depends..
if your a virgin guy but looking to fool around u would look for a virgin
but if u looking for a serious relationship and u really love her u would put all the differences aside then it doesnt really matter if shes a V or Not....

if you guys mind if the girl is a virgin or not then next time think about whether you are a virgin or not because it's only fair if you are when you expect them to be.

i dont reckon the girl being virgin or not matters...
i reckon... its even harder to hav sex if they r virgins...
screaming "it hurts" etc...
bt... i dont mind if they r vrgin or not

this question is asked like a million time already and in this era, it doesnt really matter. and its almost impossible to find a girl at my age now. and its consider not normal if ur a virgin at age of higher 20s-30's..

Seriously, i don't care. As long as u find the one that u really like or love, the rest doesn't make a big deal.

lolz! i dunt think guys care. i mean basicalli guys take away girls' virginity....n then maybe the grl gets dumped. i mean guys shuld expect that the grl they are datin mite not be a virgin because sum other stupid guy took their virginity. lolz...they shuldnt care....n it doesnt effect the grl's personality...its the way a person was born to be

Depends on wheather it is for a serious relationship or not. If it is not, they most of the guys wont care, even they like it because then they can "participate" in bonking you. Some of them will even like it because they wont feel guilty when they leave you.

If it is for a serious one, I do believe it will affect them, even though they dont show it in front of you. So girls, keep you legs closed, dont just spread it to anybody.

i'm a guy and i kinda care.. because if u have sex with a virgin.. blood starts coming out of their pussy. and ur cock will be all bloody.. but theres a rish of non virgins..t aht their sluts and have aids

Fair enough if you are a virgin too, if you are not then what happen if all men are like you and to those women you have sex with? It would be unfair, wouldn't it?

I think, the bottom line is not a matter, but I do believe, there is a room of disappointment somewhere in the male's heart. Unless.... the male was married before and possibly has kids then he would not worry too much

at first they do, liek if she is the first girl you did it with, but after like 3 or more girls, it really doesn't matter as long as she isn't std infected

Well, i dont think it really matters because once you put yours in it then shes not considered a virgin anymore so i'd say both the same.

better virgin...... because i don't hope she got xxx wif her ex.bf..... but if she is not, but her heart is now really at me here.... i wouldn't mind....

hahahh I AGREEEEe...you guys make it seem like all it matters is wat the guy prefers and not the other way around......i guess its because its so hard nowadays to find good guys who are virgins so everyone assume that guys arent. IT SHOULDNT BE THAT WAY ><

But you gotta understand if you lose your virginity... you didn't just have sex once. after losing virginity you will keep having sex.
Girls are different then guys. most guys are cold hearted. they can handle with having sex with multiple girls and will forget everything about her.
but girls. once they have sex with 1 person especially over many many times, even break up with their old boyfriend. they will still have this feeling during everytime they have sex. girls are very emotional, also they like to remember every little details... damn i that that.