QUOTE(French_Fries @ Nov 29 2006 1 47 AM) [snapback]3245211[/snapback]
IT can go both way can it. how can you LOVE something you don't know personally? Did the celeb really do anything for you to improve your life? ( talking about DBSK now). Love, isn't that too strong of a world as well. IF you "love" an idol/fan, it doesn't give you a right to criticize haters.
Why do we express and waste time on LOVING something/someone who doesn't even know our existence?
SO therefore, I dont' buy that excuse, " U hate them cause u are all jealous". Don't get me wrong, i am pretty sure some guys/girls out there are jealous of their status, but not all haters take"jealouss" asa reason.
Yeah, you are right too. I guess I only looked at one extreme side. But personally, I don't waste my time hating on others. I can dislike something, but after that i don't continue on ranting about how much i dislike that person or something, I just don't care about it or i avoid them. And I believe that's what most people do. To Love something and to Hate something are two extreme cases. And they are rare.
But for people who love DBSK, obviously DBSK don't know them personally, but (for the fans) they give the fans happiness through their performances, and music. whenever i hear their music, I feel distressed after working and going to classes, etc. So they do affect me personally and improved my...say, "daily performances"?. but to haters, by hating, does it improve say.. your, "daily performances?"
from my experience, by spending time and wasting time on loving someone like DBSK, i've met some of the greatest friends who have same interest as me. And sounds idiotic, but we're planning a trip to see DBSK. I think it's good to have something you very much look forward to when you are so stressed with schoolwork and parents nagging on you, etc. But i guess you could also say you can find your greatest friend by hating others, you know like "anti-fan clubs". you can find your friends through that. i am not sure if that's true or holds any good intention.
Also, for others, celebrities are like role models. For people who wish to become a part of entertainment business, I think it's a damn good start and i wouldn't call it a waste of time for loving your role model.
Also, DBSK members were fans of H.O.T. They said H.O.T was one of the main reasons why they started out and had a dream to become singers! and i know some people that went to singing/dancing competitions and won money after spending hours and hours looking at dbsk.
But what good does hating someone bring to you? when i look at anti-fan sites, all they say about is how crappy they sing and how they look so fugly. umm.. you at yourselves. are you that much better? plus, i am sure these people have never heard of their singing live. Also, the reason why i say some do hate b.c jealousy is beceause i've noticed with the majority of dbsk's anti-fans was that they are fans of other boyband groups. I was like wtf. they get pissed because dbsk has most fame out of all the boybands.
Funny thing is if you love something(like celebrities), you will obvioulsy search for (videos, music, pictures, etc) it and find it and see it, but the haters do that same exact thing as the lovers!. some will seriously put togehter 30 minutes slide-shows of how much they hate certain person (people who made slide-shows before know that's ALOT of time)
So for fans, i personally wouldn' call it waste of time when it gives you hopes, dreams, and even win Money after looking at your favorite idol. so what positive result or effect does it have for the haters? Also, my question is... does that give that person satisfaction? does it give sense of accomplishement?
Now, I do think hate and love are too strong of words to describe how much you like your idol. i understand if you dislike someone's performances, music, songs, genre, dancing, appearance, b.c trust me! there are tons and tons of artists and celebrities that i dislike! but hate?? .........
Plus, responding to my previous post, it's obvious when you see people that disses someone you respect, or favorite idol or whoever, it's human instinct to defend. right? lol.
okay, i went on and on again. i just typed whatever that was in my head, so some probably won't make sense! lol.. anyways, this is my thought. ^^