AhSi: Haha, thanks. We'll just leave those people to discover that on their own and hopefully they'll soon learn to respect others.
I was just at Pong's blog and i'm a little sad with his latest entry; seems like he is "recovering" fairly quickly.

Okay, okay, i know i should be happy that Pong is recovering but the idea that he is moving on just makes me wanna cry.

It especially pisses me off that people have left comments on his blog telling him to "cherish Bing Yee and forget about Sau Fung because Bing Yee won't hurt him and that Sau Fung is the one who's wrong". Yes, Bing Yee is nice (almost too nice i must say) and Sau Fung has hurt Pong a lot, but there are reasons behind her actions and love is not something as simple as...say, math. 1+1 does not always equal 2 in life. We must distinguish between love and gratitude because those two are often merged in the gray areas and one wrong decision can lead to hurting many many people. And sometimes, who's right or who's wrong doesn't seem so important anymore, because common' everyone has done something wrong in this picture: Pong for accepting Bing Yee, Bing Yee for dating Pong even though she fully knows he still loves Sau Fung, and of course, Sau Fung for letting revenge blind her...etc. etc.. That's life to ya, i guess. LOL.
I've translated some comments i found on Pong's blog that i just wholeheartedly agree with:
Sau Fung actually never forgot about you; you're still her only. It's just that she has a very extreme personality, oblivious to the fact that she has made a huge mistake. Ever since leaving you, she has been the same as you, living in hell, no one caring about her, because as you know, she has no friends other than you and her mother. I want to ask you, when you decided to accept Bing Yee, are you not going to forgive Sau Fung? In the past when i read your blog, it's always filled with the warm love you have to Sau Fung, always so touching and heartwarming. Ever since the big heartbreak, i feel that you no longer will give 100% in any relationship. It's because both have been hurt, but being able to be with the one you love the most is the wonderful thing, because, he/she is the only one wishing you too will trust your own instincts.
秀風其實從沒有忘記過你,你仍然係她唯一,只係她的性格偏激,不知道自己原來犯咁大的錯,自從她離開了你以後,她也跟你一様,活在地獄裏,沒有人關心佢, 因你知佢沒有朋友,除了你跟她媽媽,我好想問問你,在你決定跟秉怡一起的時候,你係唔係不會原諒秀風?!以前看著你的blog,裏面滿載你對秀風的愛,真係好感動,經過傷痛之後,感覺你已經對任何人都不會付出100%的感情,因為大家都受過傷,但係能同最愛的人一起才是最永恒的事,因她/他是唯一,希望你都相信自己的感覺。
Zhen Pong, you've chosen to be with Bing Yee and this, unknowingly, will eventually lead to hurting all three of you. You should be the one who knows Sau Fung the best, why didn't you stand firm and continue supporting her? The most pitiful one is not only you. The most pitiful is Sau Fung. Because she is alone, having to face all the pain by herself. You and Bing Yee still have friends and family to support you guys. How about Sau Fung? Bing Yee is a nice girl. But because you want to let go of Sau Fung, at the same time not wanting to hurt her [Bing Yee] again and chose her. Actually, what you're doing will eventually hurt Bing Yee [even more]. What you've done is really disappointing. *sigh*
振邦你選擇跟秉怡,那就無形中連累到你們三個人一起受傷。
其實你應該是最了解秀風的。為什么你不能堅持下去呢?
最可憐的不只你一個。最可憐的還有秀風。因為她一個人要獨自面對所有的痛苦與孤獨。
你跟秉怡還有家人與朋友的支持。那秀風怎么辦呢?
秉怡是個好女人。但是你只是為了放下秀風,同時又不想傷害到她而選擇了她。其實這樣做,也是會害到秉怡的。你不忠于自己的感情,實在是太令人失望 唉~
Ahhhhh it's killing mee. Just watched a little TINY clip of Pong w/Bing Yee. *shudders*

Sorry but they're just better off as friends. [no offence to Myolie fans though] In truth, Raymond has chemistry with all his co-stars (same w/Charmaine), male and female, but IMO, his chemistry with Charmaine is just unbeatable and clearly stands out among others.
BTW, anyone know which episode they'll get back together?
Here's Pong's latest entry:
Sept, 7th: Letting Go
Learning to let go will allow me to move on. Even though it's easy to say, yet much harder to do, i've at the very least took the first step, once again learning to live. I've returned to Wah Geet, as well as starting to date Bing Yee. Inside, all my emotions have calmed down; i am calm. Even though i don't have much excitement nor anticipation, i only wish to be able to step back onto the road of life and live peacefully and securely. Now my father, second Uncle, youngest Uncle along with my brother in law Wing Bill, all are working at the car plant. To say in truth, i don't have to work as hard as i have in the past. And being with Bing Yee is very comfortable. Even though there isn't much chemistry nor any fireworks, but we are happy and compatible. As things are now, i would think long lasting and steady, no more impulsiveness and passion, no more hurting, maybe this is something worth cherishing more. As for things of the past as well as any hope, i've learned to bury it well deep inside me, never to be seen again.
九月七日:放下
懂得放下,就能自在。雖然知易行難,但我還是踏出了第一步,重新開始我的生活。我重返華喆,也開始了跟秉怡約會。內心一直以來的騷動似乎已然平息。我很平靜。雖然我並沒有太大的喜悅或期待。我只希望從此可以安穩地、踏實地生活。現在父親、二叔、孻叔,連同姐夫永標,都在車廠。說實在我不需再像從前一樣的拚命。而我跟秉怡在一起,感覺很舒服。雖然沒有轟轟烈烈的化學作用,但是我們總算是相處愉快而融洽。事到如今,我會想像,細水長流,無太大的熱情無大太的傷害,或許才是更值得我去守護的愛情。當然前提是,我那股潛藏在內的渴望,將不復再現。
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Poor Pong, you can tell he is trying to grasp back onto life just because he doesn't want his family and friends to worry about him anymore. Yet inside, he is still very much hurting. Love is something that can hit you once and leave you crippled for life; just one hit that will forever leave an impact within you. And sometimes, no matter how hard you try to hide that dent, it'll still be there because sometimes, somethings just can't be mended.
LOL i was just at Sau Fung's blog and found ANOTHER comment that i just HAVE to share with you guys!!
Really admire how in the end you and Zhen Pong will be together. In reality, Zhen Pong maybe has already moved on because in the past you've brought him indescribable pain like never before. And you, as insistent as you may seem, say that you don't care whether Zhen Pong is alive or dead, but you still miss him very much. Before i thought that since Zhen Pong has a fresh start, your problems will no longer be his problems because the world changes and people change as well. And especially love; weak yet strong. Every woman wishes that no matter what we do wrong, the one we love will still accept us, promising that no matter what happens, they will still be there for you. But when the promise is gone, even though fully knowing that you've ruined it with your own hands, yet, you still secretly wish for that promise to be in effect. Actually in reality, there really isn't anyone who will, without any obligations, be your life-long guardian angel, so when Zhen Pong accepted Sau Fung, it proves how much he really loves her. And Sau Fung won't choose another, because the happiest thing is to be with the one you love and that's enough.
好湵慕你最後同掁邦係埋一齊,現實中,掁邦可能已經另覓新對像,因為你之前帶他的痛係前所未有,而你雖然口口聲聲不理掁邦的死活,但係你仍然好掛念他,本來我以為掁邦已經有新生活,你的事再不是他的事,畢竟世界會變,人也會變,而人的感情既脆弱又堅強,每個女人心中都想無論我做錯任何事,還是希望自己愛的人原諒自己,接受自己,而諾言就係不論風風雨雨都會照顧你。但當諾言不能兌現的時候,雖然明知道自己之前一手摧毀,但係還是希望那個諾言永遠不變,原來真係沒有願意無條件做你一世的守護天使,所以掁邦再接受秀風,已證明他真係好愛秀風,秀風也不會選另一個,所以好幸福,能夠跟最愛的人一起。
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LOL yeah i know, i'm REALLY crazy about this couple. Usually in every series/show/drama you'll be rooting for at least one specific couple/pairing and i, like everyone else, have been there done that. Yet, i've never really been
this crazy about an on screen couple as Zhen Pong+Sau Fung. But Raymond and Charmaine have just truly touched hearts with their superb acting and incredible chemistry, truly bringing the characters Wah Zhen Pong and Wing Sau Fung and their amazing love relationship alive before our eyes. Go Charray + PongFung!!