Ok, I've been reading a lot of speculations about Junsu and Tae Yeon's somewhat more-than-friends relationship/interactions. There are a lot of fans accounts which are filled with observations of them during the Hollywood Bowl, which just ended yesterday night.

So what do you all think about this pair? Do you think there is a possibility that this is a true rumour? Do you think the two of them make a good pair?

Personally, I will be really happy if these two are confirmed an item. All this time of my DBSK fandom I'm getting really bored of not seeing the guys getting paired up with girls. It's relatively hard, so if any of the DBSK members finally found themselves a partner, it would be a miraculous effect! If they are really going on, then I wish them all the best and hopefully they get accepted wholeheartedly by all parties (fans, management company, families, friends).

Oh, best to be a duet as well. I mean, when two people with amazing voices come together, how can you miss out a duet? Hehehe...


Real Name: Kim Junsu
Stage Names: Xiah, Xiah Junsu, Junsoo
Birthdate: December 15, 1986 (registered January 1, 1987)
Birthplace: Gyeonggi, South Korea
Height: 178 cm
Weight: 63 kg
Blood Type: B
K-pop Group: Dong Bang Shin Gi
Position: Vocals - Middle high
Religion: Christian
Hobbies: Piano, Soccer


Real Name: 김태연 (Kim Taeyeon)
Stage Name: TaeYeon 태연
Birth Date: March 9th, 1989
Height: 162 cm
Blood Type: O
Specialty: Chinese
K-pop Group: Seo Nyuh Shi Dae
Group Position: Leader

Old pictures I know, but I love them!

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FOR NOW until we are really confirmed about this. Lets just say Taesu is a speculation.

and if it is real.. here's my thoughts:

I AM VERY HAPPY. honest! Truly happy. Junsu is happy, and he got such a wonderful girl. She's an amazing singer like him and have pleasant and cute personality.

but i have to be honest tho. since the rumour breaks out. i have been happy to know it. but. i have spent hours not to think about it. only to keep thinking of junsu with taeyeon doiing any possible thing items would do. and i cried really hard and i've never feel so down..

but it doesnt keep me from being happy for junsu. What with our dream of having junsu as our own? its a childish dream. how about our dream of junsu being happy? its realising, isnt it? be happy for him.

if it is true, as a junsu fan, i will be taeyeon's bodyguard. you cant harm her as long as she's junsu's gf!!!

besides, AS LONG AS JUNSU CAN SING SO BEAUTIFULLY FOR US ON STAGE, GIVE US GREAT PERFORMANCES, MAKING US HAPPY AT HIS CUTENESS.. what else matter?

a calling for junsu fans:
support junsu no matter what. give priority for his happiness.
he has work so hard. he never let us down in any performances. do not let him down now.
do not hate taeyeon. imagine how junsu would feel if he knows that.

i see TaeSu everywhere.
fans were talking about it. and yeah, i've read some rude comments. I've watched the video they were talking about.

The TaeSu issue. I can't deny that it broke my heart. yes, i'm hurting! but hey! let's face it. If they're dating, what else can we do? Junsu will fall in love. But err..i was heartbroken. waaaaa!
but it's okay now! hahaha. am so weird.

if he is or will be dating anyone in the future, junsu will be ready to tell the world. And I hope people will respect him and the girlfriend. I HATE when people try to INTENTIONALLY HURT Junsu for trying to HAVE a NORMAL LIFE. Junsu doesn't deserve all the hates of those fans. my junsu fandom is still here and no Tae yon can change that. I LOVE KIM JUNSU, YES.
I just can't believe there are anti-Junsu gf out there. Like everyone stated they love junsu! they love junsu! but this TaeSu broke and then everything got whammed! geeeezzzz.. can't they be happy for Junsu??? Where are those: " WE WISH YOU ALL THE BEST JUNSU!!!"
"WISHING FOR YOUR HAPPINESS!", "JUNSU ALL THE WAY", blah blah blah...What happened to those words?
Junsu having a gf is just normal. then fans are hurting him. that's selfishness. we don't want him to be single forever, don't we?
Junsu is going to FALL IN LOVE, that's UNDENIABLE..
I hope Junsu has a private life. Considering how much people invade to his life too often not giving him any room to breathe..

It's just..FRUSTRATING..

as a supportive fan.. i'll support whatever Junsu does...
and i'll be so much happy that he has finally found out his love
that's so exciting, don't you think?
so yeah.. don't know what to say more...
if you're a fan of Junsu please support him anyway you can..
and not by making his life even worse because he has finally his loved one one day

This topic is just everywhere...I'm wondering how it is in Korea right now.

I dont mind if it was true, I love TaeYeon because she is talented, funny, dorky and just because she is herself, so who she is dating doesnt matter as long as she is the same dorky leader. And Junsu is talented and they do look cute tgt!

Since this rumour started like yesterday I think? I keep thinking about it cause I'm really worried abt her. Call me crazy or too sensitive but I just cant imagine Cassiopeia being all mature and supportive.
I can already see them harrassing her and bashing her like crazy. T_T
(I'm sorry if I give out such a bad image of DBSK's fans but we must admit they're pretty scary, most ppl dont fear them for no reasons) there were so many SNSD's antis after the Haptic CF which was ONLY a simple JOB so a scandal??

I find TaeSu really cute and I'll die for a duet but for now, I just want the 2 of them to step out and say they're really close like brother/sister, etc.

SNSD and TaeYeon dont need any more Antis, they have enough already.

(seeing TY in ChinChin last time hurted by the antis just broke my heart so I dont wanna see that again)

There are lots of accounts and pics of Taesu so I am trying to disregard this as simply a rumor for now. There is also a fan who said she saw plenty of Taesu moments, cheek pinching, etc and there are also tons of pictures of the two. She'll upload when she has time.

I am thrilled about this. If Taeyeon is the girl for Junsu, I'll be so happy for him. She's so cute and bubbly. They are a perfect match.

Now if only some fangirls will stop living in denial and try to admit Taesu could be a real pair.

babycookie, Heyy..really curious about the pics where Junsu and Tae Yeon together..
hope to see those pics posted here...ok?
wait for it..
really can't wait to watch more of their interactions

I can't post the pictures here without permission but check soompi. You'll see Taesu walking together. Taeyeon has her hand around Junsu's waist while he puts his hand on her shoulder. Check the DBSK thread and Taesu thread at soompi.

babycookie, oh well ok ok..
do you mind to share the soompi thread links??
if it's ok?

^ The pics got taken down at soompi, on both threads, because to prevent anymore scandals or harm to happen to Taesu. If you want the pics, pm me and I will send you them. I have the pictures saved on my file.

Yes if they were dating, that is so wonderful. Taeyeon is a wonderful girl and she'll make Junsu happy. I think their personality fit each other so well. Now I am waiting for more fanfics to bloom from this. Forget other fanfics couple, people have Taesu, which might be real.

yea so can't wait for TaeSu to reveal about their relationship..
it's really obvious that they really have something..
*some fans are trying to deny everything...by saying that... those hugging or placing hands on each others arms or shoulders are very normal and normal friends can do that...*
but i don't think so..they must have something..
moreover, they went out just the two of them...the other boys didn't go with them...

omg can yu send dem to me please? cus i jus found out bout the rumor today buh it's too late for me to find the pics anymore..thanks in advance!! =)

hi! im sorry to be a bother, but i was wondering if you can share the pics with me as well. my friend and i are just really curious. if not, its ok as well. thank you! XDDDD

hey, can u send those pictures, i'm actually a fan of both, but i'm just curious to how "severe" this really is (there's no pictures anywhere!!) my email is: jiangruozhu@hotmail.com
thanks ^^

All right some of you are newbies, so I can't pm you the pictures. Leave me your email or pm me if you want the Taesu pictures.

Mary J: Do you have another email? I've sent you twice but both emails were failed to be sent.

so this rumor is really on a roll now, isn't it...?

well, first thing's first... if this issue is true, we really can't do anything about it... it's expected that people would have negative and positive responses to this and it really can't be helped...

taesu's fine with me... i mean, taeyeon has a nice personality and i guess it really fits with junsu's...

when i watched the fancam, i actually thought that it was no big deal... it's not a crime to be friends with the opposite sex, right...?

here's my view on the video: it looks like after junsu shook hands with the fans, he whispered something to taeyeon and then they had a low high-five... i agree to the statement that they had a "high-five-we-rock" moment... then when the two were entering backstage, it looks like they were still talking... we can see that taeyeon had an arm on junsu's waist for a few seconds then let go...

with that said, i THINK it's nothing but oppa-dongsaeng gestures... it looks like actions that a brother and sister would do... the actions doesn't really prove they're dating... but it is POSSIBLE... i really took notice of their actions because i don't want to judge right away...

well, that's only an opinion... if they're really dating... then never mind my whole explanation...

better wait for them to confirm this so that all of our speculations would be of rest...

i hope fans keep supporting the two... that's all i can say... they're still human... they also have feelings...

hey could u please send me the pics too? i really like dbsk and im curious to see if they really r dating or if its just a friend thing

my email address is : mana_382@hotmail.com

so surprise for them

If don't mind, pls send me the pix of them.

at kangta_oppa@yahoo.com

They're so cute together though I'm a bit in pain.

Thanks in advance..

This is getting slightly out of hand. Please remember to stay on topic as well. It's difficult for me because all these are actually considered spam as you did not elaborate more about TaeSu themselves.

Also, I would suggest you all not to simply repost any pictures, because the owner herself did state that those pictures and videos are not to be distributed without her permission. With that said, please refrain from asking for pictures unless you have PERMISSION.

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those pictures...
which i took off soompi and deleted.
the ones of taeyeon and junsu in front of a&f.
i took it down for a reason

and all of you posting it everywhere..
didnt even ASK for my permission.
they're MY pictures. and it even says on the picture itself "do not take without permission"

im asking everyone who saw my pictures before i deleted them. and most likely saved them..
to just keep them for yourselves at least

PLEASE STOP POSTING MY PICTURES WITHOUT ASKING ><!

Back on topic, I remember Tae Yeon did say that her favourite member in DBSK is Junsu, so that sparks up more speculations. I guess she does admire Junsu in a way. By now nobody, not even Junsu and Tae Yeon said anything about it right? They must have seen the news because it's all over the web...

Can't believe my eyes that all the users who've asked for TaeSu pictures are all newbies on this thread..or on AF..
wowww.. the impact is real big, eh??

soul's cradle, it's so true of what you're saying..they could be just like brother-sister kind of relationship~ but... what i can't believe is that.. they were caught on camera wandering around LA for shopping together...and they didn't go with other DBSK/SuJu/SNSD members..oh
yea, and there was one staff with them actually~~

and when i saw a fancam of them coming back to the hotel.. they even went back in their separate ways... it seemed like they wanted to hide or something... *but still, they got caught up by someone~~ which they probably thought, "we're in America.. and no one will recognize us.. so let's date here"~

that's pretty hard to deny that they're actually not having feelings toward each other..
of course, this is all my point of view, could be wrong though

just my 2 cents hehe

i really really do hope they're together!

okay, so i just saw the junsu-taeyeon together at LA streets pictures...

it angles to the couple thing, but that's not really enough evidence... we don't even know the story behind that...

my opinion: let's say that they're really dating... i believe that the DBSK boys are aware of their fanbase in the sates... the red sea was very obvious... snsd is a rookie band and they're slowly building up their popularity globally... what i'm saying is, i think the two are very knowledgeable of their statuses and i guess they wouldn't be that stupid to actually think they would have no fans following them in LA...

if it is true, then it would be unrealistic to think that they're going to reveal it to the public... their company is smarter than that... so i finally came to realize that this whole issue would not be cleared and would just die down slowly...

AyUmIXx: i agree with you... the other fancams added to the speculations... it is really not normal for the two of them to wander alone... okay, so the whole dating thing might be really possible... though, it is still safe to not rush to conclusions... personally, i want them together... even if it means ruining my whole plot in my fanfiction... but i'm still rooting on my stand that it's just a point of friendly interaction... 8D

Aspire: i really do believe that the two already had a brief idea of this scandal and the mere fact that nobody's still saying something only have two factors: 1) it is not true or 2) it is true and sm is trying its best to cover everything up...

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frankly, i'm not really an expert in this kind of things... please take note that these are only my OPINION... i'm not stating them as fact...

JUNSU FIGHTING!

TAEYEON FIGHTING!


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i really hope the korean fans wouldn't take this issue too harsh... i'm afraid that some kind of havoc would occur...

well, it's true or not true..
i'm happy enough to see them together wandering around LA for shopping together..
and a little "high five" thing on stage.. it's liked only the two of them doing that, isn't it??
we never know what's the story behind them, that's so true...
because i really barely see the boys with girls together like that in the public~~
so yeah, it's kinda shocked and i kinda think that it's really time for the boys to have boy-girl relationship

*and i do hope that the Korean fans should be more open-minded about that.. it's time to face the facts that those boys are human too.. they need love, need care from the opposite sex~*

hi, i guess i'm jumping on the bandwagon.
the pictures are nowhere to be found anymore. and im really just curious to see them.
i actually think junsu and taeyeon would be adorable together.

if you could please send them to me my email is kristie.v.n@gmail.com

does anyone know how the Korean Cass. are reacting?
I just find it weird that neither SM nor TaeYeon clear up the rumours.

Hope everything is going to be Ok for both even if the one who is gonna get hurt is TaeYeon.

SH4ever, the reason SM doesn't clear it up maybe because... TaeSu are real?
i heard that around March 2008, in Korea, some fans also every caught TaeSu in the act too..and they were seen together as well... but the issue was just dropped like that..didn't talk about any further..then the issue comes up again..
but it seems that the korean fans are very OK with it??

If Cass overreacts, Soshi fans will protect Taeyeon. Soshi has a huge fanbase, maybe not comparable to Cassieopeia but still, they won't sit back and let Taeyeon be harmed. So far there is no news regarding DBSK's whereabouts. We will have to wait to see if SM will deny it. If they do not, we can say for sure Taeyeon and Junsu has something going on.

I think it'll be allright. I mean fans did support Taesu during the Haptic CF even when they did not get together.

Of course, I would still support DBSK Xiah JunSoo regardless of whether he is dating with TaeYeon or not.
Both of them are dorkies in actual fact and I see no harm of them being together!
But I just hope JunSu himself would tell the truth to us fans and stop the speculation.
Hmm... I have to admit that my heart did sank a little when I heard the rumor despite that Su isn't my favourite member!
I wish him happiness ^^

oh no...

this is bad...

this issue is on korea news already... i just watched it on youtube a moment ago...

i wonder if the two knew it already...

i guess there's a fifty-fifty chance that korean fans would be fine with it...

i just wish happiness for the two, whether it's true or not...

8D

I think we have to wait for DBSK to reappear again then.

babycookie I'm a SoShi's fan but I dont know how big are their fanbase, that's why I'm worried,

If they are really dating then I want the truth, dont want them to denied it then later, we discover they lied to us.

soul's cradle, may i request for the youtube link please?
i would like to watch
thanks

and i hope that it'll be cleared very soon!

I'm upset but yet Im happy. I6t's a childish dream for us all to think that we can be a pair with DBSk but now that my FAVORITE XIAH JUNSU has got someone ( if the rumors are true) then i have nothing but bliss for him IT's upsettting to know BUt I love him and as long as the sweet songs he sings are still true to us all we will love him forver more as we always have....

i actually find it funny how they managed to make a couple out of so little. then again theres been worse. they high fived. so what? sungmin and sunny did more things while hosting their radio and i don't see a OMG SUNMIN COUPLE thread flying around.

taesu is way better than.. um, something like yoonsu or junin or even bosu(yoona and junsu, riin and junsu, boa and junsu).
Junsu is my number one boy in the world (except for donghae. no one can replace that sweetie) and i'm actually fine with this. Better her than anyone else.

i can't post the link...

just search it youtube...

enter: taeyeon and junsu YTN news

*sigh*

so the media got a hold of the issue...

really not good...

Whoo... the news has gotten big. I just saw that the news (rumour) of them dating was even printed up on a Chinese newspaper. I'm not sure which newspaper it is but it doesn't look like it's a Malaysian paper.

One good thing is I don't seem to be seeing too many people bashing Tae Yeon. Most of them were just denying that there is a possibility that both Junsu and Tae Yeon COULD be dating. Now they're giving the public the 'silent treatment' by keeping quiet about the rumours. Hahaha... well, I agree with SH4ever. I prefer that they come clean about it IF it's true, rather than letting us know they are lying to us. I have yet to know any DBSK members lie so I don't want any one of them to be the first. And if it's not true, well, then it's good for them as well since no harm done.

Is it coincident that after the TaeSu rumours broke out the whole of DBSK seem to disappear... Both are right after Hollywood Bowl. I hope it's not really related. Sounds bad to me...

Don't ask me for the newspaper scan, I won't post it here. Go search for it at soompi and if you're lucky you'll still see it.

I'm waiting for DBSK to come back and see if Junsu are going to say smth.

I heard that antis are working hard on hurting TaeYeon right now, they are spamming/bashing her on her UFO's page.

SM SAY SMTH!

really? that is ridiculous. r they fans of DBSK aka Cass fans? if so I am not surprised by their behaviors. when will they learn DBSK do not belong to them

I want junsu to say something too. hopefully he can confirm or clarify. i don't like being left in the dark. i'd be so happy if Taesu were real. Taeyeon is like great for him

i really want to know what Junsu will say when they come back to Korea...
or even from Tae Yeon too..

so the boys have been "missing" for a week now.. then, is SNSD "missing" too?
if so, then, there's really something going on~~
SM must have asked them not to appear on public first...

*and i just don't understand why those fangirls are very annoying?!?!?!?!
it's not that Junsu can be married to all the fans~~~~ gosshh... sometimes, i can get sick with those crazy fangirls!!!! even i'm a fan, but i can hate some fans who think that the boys are belong to them.. and it's liked, whatever things that the boys will do, need to ask permissions from the fans first.. ridiculous!!!, they really should care about their own life~~*

^ only DBSK are ''missing'' since Hollywood Bowl.
SNSD are in Korea already, they're doing their solo activities.

Yet neither SM nor TaeYeon have talk about this issue.

I guess SM want to wait til DBSK are back in Korea and see what happened.

oh ok..
i think that this issue is going to be dropped down pretty soon~
considering that around March 08...
TaeSu have also been made into a big fuss in korea as well...
it's not the first time actually...
heard that some Korean saw them together somewhere too~
is it true??

I heard abt that too but I think this time is different because there are pictures.
w/o the pics, I wont believe any single thing from this rumour as well.

I already don't have a good opinion on Cass. but maybe most of them will prove me wrong?
if they love their boys so much then they might be mature enough to not hurt anyone.
(I might be asking too much though..)

SH4ever, ohhh ic.. so there was really a rumor back before...
woww interesting...very very interesting
because the boys have never had gossips with girls before, so yeah.. it's time for their maturity experience to come up!!! *well in a good gossip though~ just like one with Junsu now*
and now.. with the pics as evidence, it has become more interesting~~

*yeapp..i do hope the Cassiopeias can be open-minded to accept the fact if they really date!!!*

I'm not a DBSK's fan so I dont know much abt the boys.
so i just wanna know, is Xiah the kind of guy who is serious abt dating?
of course nobody knows them personally but from show, interview, etc. we can have some clues on how they are in private.

(yeah nothing is confirmed but if it's true then i wanna know if TaeYeon is in good hands.lol)

SH4ever: rest asure xiah is def a good person, and of course a good boyfriend if anything really happens very fun-loving just like taeyeon. i do se some similarities btw the both of them, maybe thats why are rumors about them

well, i have heard abt this rumor not long ago. at first i thought junsu would be pairing with taeyeon in the HAPTIC CF, i got pretty excited about it. and of course looking forward to their interaction
if they really get tgt for some reason or others. i still support both of them since they are among my favs in dbsk&snsd.
im not against these pairing.

i have a feeling, its gonna be a hard time for taeyeon though. its not like it never happen before to other members

Once, I read a user writing about how Junsu seldom (or NEVER) talked about his past relationships and so. I don't know how you decipher this, but you could take it a positive way like I do. For a person who doesn't like to reveal about his past relationships, he might be the kind who sees dating as a serious matter and not to be taken simply. Perhaps he knew how powerful Cassiopeia is, so he didn't want to pose too much pressure on his ex-girlfriend(s). I have noticed that Junsu is like very resistant to girls for some reason, haha... I don't know why, but if you watched their variety shows, behind-the-scenes, interviews, you see that he rarely interacts with girls, not even with Koda Kumi when they collaborated in Last Angel.

I'm not saying this because I am a DBSK fan, but I would say Tae Yeon COULD be in good hands if they are really dating.

As for Tae Yeon, I've never heard about her relationship history so I don't know much about her.

Thanks Aspire.

Well if I believe her words, TaeYeon has never dated before. I think it's true cause the other members who had ex-bf didn't hide the fact so I believe TaeYeon never had a boyfriend.
Before debuting she had to answer like 85 questions or smth and one of them was ''your first kiss'' and she answered ''I'd like to try'' lol

But TaeYeon is a good girl (I might be biased), we are not calling her umma for no reason. She likes to take care of others and seeing ppl smile because she help them make her happy. I think she is really an innocent and sweet girl that's why it's so hard seeing ppl bash her and curse her.

hmmm whether Tae Yeon or Junsu in good hands or not.. i think it's not for the fans to decide..
it's their own personal things... and i just believe that both of them are good people...
*just some fans who make them look so bad sometimes *

*waiting for some news of the confirmation though *

^yeah I know we are no one to decide whether they're good for each other or not.
Just that sometimes as fan, we are protective towards them, maybe more than their own parents! lol

I'll supprt them..
Although I'll feel a lil heart pain..
But, i'll still supprt you.
This is because i want you to be happy.
As long as you're happy, then i'm fine^^
Don't worry, i'll support you!!
You'd spend lots of your time in the circle of entertainment, so, now it's time for you to live for yourself^^

gosh people get real!

I'm not making people feel bad or anything but those pics are real! I saw them shopping! It's true that two of them, Leeutuk and the manager all went there together (as seen on the fancams at the hotel) but when they got there the they went their separate ways! The two of them are together while shopping. Call me a disrespectful fan who doesn't give them privacy but it's my only chance to see them up close.. so I followed them like a stalker. Come on! fan's waited for two years to see them in person. I agree that fan's should respect them, give them privacy and not be all up in their faces but you should also consider the feelings of the people who want to cherish these moments into their memories. It's once in a lifetime. It's not like they're here every week! If that's the case then people should really keep a decent distance while taking pictures or videos of them... but clearly its not.

I think it's noble for fans to consider Junsu and Taeyeon's feelings but I think it would be more noble If you just express your support and not judge the other fan's who doesn't.

There are fan's who live and breath for these artists, There are also fan's who fantasize and dreams of being with them someday. I know it's crazy/insane but they do exist and they have feelings too and they do get hurt... I have met friends online who felt bad too but they don't want to express their opinions online because they are afraid of people bashing them.

Honestly I felt bad too but It's not like my life would stop after seeing this. Life goes on. Junsu and Taeyeon are normal human beings too and they deserve Happiness. But I own my feelings and If I got upset... that's just me. We are all different that's why the world is in balance. And were all unique.

But I think it's time for people to get a grip! There are two sides on everything! Good/bad, Ugly/pretty, wrong/right. If you support this pairing then be happy! be delighted, Be ecstatic by all means and support them and Just end it there. If you don't support it then be sad, cry, get mad and end it there too!

I'm not saying that people here are not good people. I don't have the right to judge and people are always entitled to their own opinion. I just think that I'd look up more to that person/people if they don't respect and consider just one side but also concerns themselves with others too.

I know people would say... So are you like saying we should look up more to you!?? If you really understand what I'm trying to say You wouldn't think of it in that context. I'm just trying to explain it better.

I'm not mad and I hope you won't get mad at me. I just wanted to share my Honest opinion and to speak for all the people given no chance to express their own.

I'm so ready for my bashers now. Even though I'm hoping there wont be any. Oh well... just Bring it on.

I know I'm gaining haters on my post but before that..I still wish you all lots of love and Happiness! Keep smilin!

^ I dont think people are bashing on fans who are not supporting the ''couple''.

There is a difference between being sad, upset, etc. because your favourite idol/artist is taken (believe me the world was better when Tae Yeon wasn't link to anyone) and going around to bash the girl/guy who is rumoured to be dating your beloved idol.

How do you expect fans to not bash you if you started insulting their idol? I've read comments such as ''TaeYeon is a wh***'', ''JunSu can do better than this wh***'', ''She is such a b****, how dare she touch my oppa''. Those kind of comments will make people feel that such fangirls are just stupid and crazy. (I'm not talking abt you of course)

Now if you are hurt, upset, can't believe and don't support them together, fine. Everyone has their own opinion and I'm sure nobody will start bashing you for this.

Whether we support them or not, we should at least respect their choices and decisions. It's not by hating that they'll change their mind, they will just end up sad and hurt because of that.

So you were stalking them? lol