I hate to admit but yes, I can't explain why I felt that way. Just the vibe they give off or something, like theres just something about them. I dont like to judge people but it just happens.

Lol. anyone else felt that way?

yeah I feel that way...usually it's by the way they look at me...especially when they give me that stupid "talk to me and die" look. -__- but if I have to talk to them then I'll just ignore that stupid vibe and talk to them or else I'll go on with my way and hope that I never meet them again.

Surely i have.

When i was really young i have, after that i kind of grew up and that nature died and i just either feel this person is weird or watever (i base this on just talking and getting to know them)

I remember the guy and girl code when i was young, don't hang with girls lol...but this girl hanged with the guys and i was just hard on her case ... constantly dissing her. Eventually we became very good friends haha (take a couple couple couple of years fast forward loL)

Judgement is required, i believe in any case we should judge people through their physical appearance and also how they act (which is through observation). An example is when i meet people i don't target those who give that impression that they are a gangster or bad person...i would never and have never approached a goth person in reality but online ... you don't know till you ask Lol.

Judgement doesn't define all but it is good to have.

I feel it is okay to dislike someone instantly for whatever reasons, but really i reckon people should keep it to themselves. A fair bit of my friends are really off and just go on b!tching like they understand and know this person.

Simply put, they judged through two dimensions and not three.

Fair bit of people do this, even i do it sometimes...but atleast some of us keep it to ourselves. Fortunately i like harsh jokes and it is funny to listen to my friends b!tch hence it is a bonus on my side..."at times".

Yes, I have. It's either their behavior and way of speaking or their way of thinking that puts me off. During my internship I met this co-worker, I thought she's very nice but she isn't the way I think she is. I found out that she's the biggest foul mouth ever and love to jump to conclusions without knowing much. She behaves like a 16 year old kid when she's like 25? I don't know but every time I see her, I literally cringed.

Hmm not by the looks of it, but sometimes just by the way they act over one situation, sometimes i take one look and think that they are very mean or something but that is it, not to the point that i dislike them

Yup i did!
When I started grade 7, i knew from the look of the girl I would not get along with her and I was right..she bullied me and stuff..

I always take an instant disliking to really rude people. Pisses me off. Especially where I work.

Yes.
actually ive hated someone ive never met in person too
its just how first impressions are.
if they come off as some snob that u hate then ur gonna hate them no matter how long u have known them.
ive met some slutty snobby girls and i hated them instatantly.

scientifically eveyone gets off a scent that other people can smell subconsciously. its just a chemical thing that we all have.
some people are attarcted to ur scent while some hate it.
this is the animal part in us

omg, all the time. I'm quite shallow and I do judge a book by its cover. And sometimes some people are really, really, "yeung sui", not like ugly...but they look like a jackass.

And it doesn't help that my instincts are usually pretty damn right...>.>"

I think almost everyone has. Its just human nature, sometimes you dislike them to begin with, but after you know them you like them. Theres only one person I think that i disliked from the begininng and i still hate.

How do you dislike someone when you never even interact with them? I guess because it happens to me quite a lot; I find it rather stupid.

Everytime I go to a party; I would find out that some chick just happen to dislike me. Like honestly? How can you have hatred toward someone when you don't know them? People just have too much time with their life.

The only time I've ever dislike someone before even speaking to them was when this one girl was bragging about how many beers she can drinks (Because being a drunk ass is so awesome < _ <) But even then; it's because I see a part of her personality... not because I see her face and hate her instantly.

It's understandable if you get a bad impression on someone; but to dislike them? I wouldn't go that far.

who deosn't? A ruined first impression is really harsh.

Gosh this is so truee!
Sometimes the impression at first time takes it's place.
Like whenever I see a girl walking in a snobbish way,
I'll immediately turned my head over and whispered to myself saying that I dislike her.
It happens all the time.
And since this topic is brought up, I wonder whyy myself..

Yes I have and also for the same reason you have. Sometimes people gives you this vibe which makes you instantly dislike them. Sometimes my feeling tells me that the person isn't all what they act as in front of you (nice, kind, etc) and usually this feeling is right.

i thnk i had..trying to thnk back, but then when you hang around the person more and get to know them you'll soon get along with them. first impression are important for meeting someone new you can kinda tell what type of person they are...

it doesnt usually happen to me, well.. it could like based on how they dress or what they look like, i mean like if someone were to walk up to me wearing gangster clonthing and holding a gun, then yes, my first feeling would be to dislike them, but if its just a regular person dressed regularly, and nothing out of the ordinary, then i would get to know the person first b4 i make any assumptions and whether or not i like them. but i know waht you're talking about, i've heard scientists say that everyone gives off their own special scent, and its possible to have people like each other instantly based on the way they smell, same as true with people not liking each other based on their scent.

Depending on the circumstance that I met the person, I must admit it did happen to me but now that I am older but not sure if I am wiser it happens a lot less. My opinions do repidly change as I get to know the person.

Sorry to say this but yes I have to admit that there are people that gives me that feeling which makes me feel bad sometimes. Cause I personally don't like to have prejudice about people, but sometimes I just do which I don't like. -__- But I think the reason for being like this is that the person itself gives me such a bad impression. Sometimes its they way the person talk... like if he/she is all high and mighty, being all b*tchy and likes to show off by criticizing things. I don't like people that looks down on others just based on how the person looks like. sadly I have seen people like that cause they didn't liked the way this one person were dressed. ¬__¬

Similarly, they are those U find instantly attractive too. Just a matter of "taste" in Inndividuals , not about discrmination

Only if someone rubs me the wrong way. Other then that I hold back on judgement esp. if it’s solely based on the physical... (Unless they appear really off like a crack head and so on) I try to give it a bit of time before I come to my actual conclusions. But if someone is just plain rude, no social ethics, and has nothing better to do then create gossip (common among uneducated & lifeless individuals) then I don't waste time with them as birds of a feather flock together.

I usually reserve judgement until later.

Yeah of course. Sometimes when a person enters, the atmosphere can change hugely. I know people say not to prejudge others but there are seriously a few people in this world who you will just dislike anyway. Sometimes, the person doesn't even need to open their mouth, and you just feel that you hate them already...I don't know why.

But most of the time, I trust my instincts.

oH yes i do.... and i just dont like them for no good reason and i dont even want to talk to them.. yeah

Ya i have and i dotn usually dislike pple that easy. But I can tell if i dislike that person by there attitude

Because humans are slaves to first impressions. The first look is always the most important. That's when ppl start to judge someone without even really knowing him/ her.

Oh my...ALL THE TIME!
I hate girls that walk around with a face like they're gonna kill someone..
It's like, would it kill you to smile once in a while?

I always thought that those who hates people at first sight are seriously childish enough, no matter how reasonable your answer is...Feelings? Base on unexplainable feelings, i can't define that easily!

I rarely dislike someone from the start but I must admit that I did meet a friend of a friend about two years ago and I didn't like her from the minute I met her. I got bad vibes from her and everything that came out of her mouth was just "blah blah". She gave me the sense that she was the type of person that was materialistic and sl*tty. I'm a pretty liberal person but I have my conservative side and I don't agree with people who cheat on their significant others. It was the first time I met her and she was having dinner with me, my cousin, my friend and another friend and was already telling us all her personal private life stuff... I think it was not appropriate and felt that she was just trying to be "cool".

i have. maybe beacuse of their looks, their way of talking and walking... idk, weird feeling.

yeah of cos there's just someone out there when you saw him or her you will instantly dislike him/her maybe it's mostly on attitude problem

Yes, just like how sometimes you and a certain person can "click" right away without knowing that person for long. We all have instincts, though it may not always be accurate and can skew our judgement.

all the time. i just met one last week. my frd introduced me to one of his frd. We exchanged hi's and i just felt the negative vibe from her. i have heard ppl say how she's a b*tch n what not, maybe it is true........ haha

surely i have..either i dun like their appearance or behaviour..
sometimes they reli ticked me off...hahaha...
but we always ending up being friends though...sounds weird huh....lolss

yes, i have...
usually i would instantly dislike a person if that person's first impression to me is of someone arrogant, cocky,snobbish or even give that bad-boy or bad-girl vibe...
i know it's not good to be judgmental but most people that i dislike instantly upon meeting them are really people that i don't associate with, even after getting to know them..
so sometimes, instincts can be right...

I was doing a customer service training once and the dude presenting said to my coworkers and I that it takes a person 6 secs to make a first impression on another. So usually when you look at a person, you either get good vibes or you don't.

Yes, I've met a handful of people I wished I never did encounter in my life. Most of the time it's because they are too cocky, conceited, stupid, rude, arrogant, and annoying.

Yup. Sometimes its a 6th sense thing sometimes its just the way they talk, what they say and their actions.:/

Not usually, but yeah, I must admit to disliking a certain few after barely an encounter or two.
Okay, I'll admit to being far too uptight at first encounters, but I can't stand it when a pal introduces me to a friend of theirs & that person yaks on & on about how many 'significant others' they're juggling at the time & what's worse, about how very 'cool' they think it is to do that. Honestly, I don't find it quite an honorable fact to go around announcing to people you just met.

But the majority that I could never stand is those typo, giggly, I-love-pink girls you find scattered across malls. You know, the type that enjoy pointing at random people & laughing their ass off. Yeah, speaks volumes of your upbringing if you're shameless enough to point at others you don't even know & laugh so uncontrollably as though the person's got 10 heads or something. Even if they do, you have no right to laugh at another person when you yourself have a ridiculous amount of make-up covering your face, quite resembling a clown, I must add.
Me & my pals respond to these immature fools by either mirroring their exact actions until they realise how stupid [& not 'cool'; seriously, kids these days have a totally messed-up outlook on 'being cool'] they look when doing so. Though my personal preference is pinning them down with a seriously ticked-off glare. The wiser ones of the lot actually straighten up & behave, while the really really stupid ones just laugh some more.

omg, i've had some similar experiences like urs, not many but a few...just see someone, who is your friend's friend or some other person, and u hear them talk or see the way they walk n you realize right there that u can never be friends with them...

For me its ugly people and dumb people. That's about it. Yes, being blunt. Why can't people be straight forward instead of super nice. We all know we are internally all messed up.

Yes, I also have similar experience. There're some people I just do not like on the first meeting, and I do not know why.. Can't explain it here though, since I also do not understand why. It's not like I know the person well enough to dislike them. I suppose that's why people said first impression is very important.

im not afraid to admit it, but i got a good judge of people, and usually its true

yeh but not from their looks... just how they talk/act..I cant dislike someone just by looking at their face!

Not to sound racist but there was this new kid attending our school this first semester. He was "black", african american, and right after I saw him I had this feeling he was a bad person. I felt really bad thinking it but I couldn't seem to let it go, like he gave off this vibe and every time I saw him I felt like I needed to be ready to protect myself. Well sure enough about a month after he came he was arrested for pulling a knife out on some kid right outside of campus. lol

In my case, I know exactly why.

If the person say's racist and/or sexist comments, I'll dislike them instantly.
Or, if they've got really bad tempers and really REALLY bad mouths.
Like this one guy I played with online over the xbox, the conversation was like

Him: "Hey, you wanna play a f*cking game?"

Me : "okay"

Him: Lets see if I can find where the f*ck I put that sh*t. . .aw f*ck, where the f*ck is it? Goddamn, it, I can't find the f*cking. . ..Ha! There, found that f*cking thing, it's about god damn f*cking time.

(proceeds to pop in the disk)

Him: "Okay, F*ck yea, lets kill some sh*t, motherf*cker.

(Someone kills his character)

Him: "OH MY F*CKING GOD!! WHAT THE F*CK WAS THAT?! THAT MOTHERF*CKING B*TCH!
i JUST STARTED THE F*CKING GAME AND HE f*CKING KILLS ME! THAT SH*TTY MOTHERF*CKER! GOD F*CKING DAMN! i JUST DONT F*CKING BELIEVE IT! HOW THE F*CK DID HE EVEN F*CKING SEE ME?! THAT GODDAMN F*CKING B*TCH!!! YEA, f*CK YOU ASSHOLE, F*CK YOU, YOU f*CKING C*NT!!!!"



People with attitudes like the guy above me really REALLY annoy me.

Yeah, at one time or another, I've met people that I instantly dislike. It's the way they talk and act.

i think that no matter how hard everyone tries, everyone gets a first impression of people and that always lingers in people's minds. it's only whether we admit it or not. usually, i just go by experience too and those vibes tend to be pretty true about the person.

Yea, it's very rare, but usually the person just reminds me of someone i didnt like.

everyone is like that...i remember i met this girl and once i saw her i didn't like her and she turned out to be completely fake and no one liked her...and she really ave off a bad vibe/bad first impression..

so when i first meet her she was acting like she was tough and stuff minutes later she tells my friend oh someone is gonna jump me and then my friend is like what do you want me to do? walk you to class?

another situation i was heading to another class and she looked sad and went to her friend and her friend said what's wrong and she's like someone threw my sidekick on the floor...

and in my mind i'm like wth do you want her to do?

idk its people like this who really get my angry like they act all stuff meanwhile their not...

Hmm, I think there are a lot of this kind of people I've met in my life. They make a very impression on me right at the first place by their uneducated behaviors. For instance, my new neighbors recently. They drop their litter all over the places in public corridors outside their apartment. What a mess!

Yea, that was like back in kindergarten, there was this kid that started to bully me after the first day i walked through the door. For some reason he just didn't like me, but we actually ended up becoming really good friends in the end.

In my case, I'm generally a fairly open minded person when it comes to people, but if I notice someone who's really racist or sexist, then I'll peg them as an asshole and not want anything to do with them.

Yeah, I'm open-minded too, and I don't judge people at first glance. I won't say "I don't like her/him" without any reason, that would be stupid im my opinion. But I understand that sometimes, a person tends to have that "aura" that just makes you feel uneasy or something like that. But when I hear someone talking nonsense or in a bad way, I just walk away from him...because I would be pissed off.