Nikki posted this in the news section
JYP's official statement regarding JayHe wrote:
I have received much shock from what Jaebum wrote 4 years ago to his friend. Could it have been another celebrity, I myself would have felt much anger, resentment, and abandonment at his words. But I have known Jaebum for so long that those words are not surprising to me.
I already knew Jaebum was that kind of child.
When Jaebum first came to Korea 4 years ago, he was very rebellious and out of line. He laughed at Korea and belittled his fellow trainees, even going so far as to see me as ‘easy.’ I believe he thought that being a Korean celebrity was something to laugh at. He was a boy that wanted to b-boy in the streets. He fought with company employees, his dance instructors, and made threatening statements.
At times, he even said that he did not like JYP Ent., and would name another rival company, wishing to be sent there instead.
But what made us surprised even more was that when asked whether he had the guts to succeed, he said “We could succeed if we don’t receive JYP’s music.”
At this point, employees wondered why we were keeping such a rebellious boy.
This is why his words 4 years ago are not surprising.
Then why would we keep such a kid?
I love rebellious children. Rather than children that are nice up front but are calculating and evil behind my back, I love children that are rebellious up to my face. I loved the fact that he showed his emotions straight up. It gave me hope. Who would have the guts to utter such words to my face? To say that his failure depended on my bad music? I thought that it was funny.
I believed that rebellious children had too much energy, just no place to express that energy. Or they never met someone that would trust them enough to show them the correct path. I wanted to help this person go on stage and feel the energy and joy. As long as I could instill within him trust and love.
To Jaebum, there are only two types of people. His family, and those that are not his family. He loves his family more than I could ever know. The reason he talks about money in interviews is not to buy nice clothes, it is to pay back his family, who always works hard for him. That’s why he ran the path of becoming a singer.
He was rebellious, but he excelled in training.
I saw this and thought, if only I could make him think of my company, his fellow trainees, this company as his family. if only.
So one day, I told him “Jaebum, someone is not a family only because they share the same blood. Please open your heart to them first. Then others can be your family too.”
Through these efforts, he began to change.. He began to hug his fellow trainees, start conversations with company employees, and began enjoying his time on the stage.
He finally began to express his energy on stage and began to shine through singing and dancing.
I chose him as the team’s leader. The rest of the 6 really believed in him and followed his lead.
He always trained with them and always thought of his younger members before him..
After his debut, he felt a change in his heart at the news reporters and attentions that showed him in a positive light and began showing affection.
He was touched at by the hearts of his fans.
Good people, good friends, good fans… good music.. through all this, he began to change.
But as things began to go up, like a sad movie scene, his entry from 4 years ago was released.
He was so sorry. To his 2PM brothers, to me, to his company employees, to his fans.. and to nobody more than to his Koreans.
He thought to himself that if he stayed any longer, his brothers would only get more hurt. He told me he did not have the confidence to get up on stage.
I knew what he was saying too well to hold him back.
If I were him, I would have made the same decision.
And so he left.
His last email to me said “I’VE BEEN A LITTLE PUNK IN THE PAST. I JUST WANT TO LET YOU KNOW THAT IT WAS A LIFE CHANGING EXPERIENCE. IT MADE ME A MUCH BETTER MUCH STRONGER PERSON AND I’M THANKFUL FOR EVERYTHING YOU HAVE DONE FOR ME. REAL TALK.”
My heart was ripping. It hurt. But knowing what Koreans would feel at his words, an immense sense of betrayal, I could not say anything.
But what I can do for him is to tell everyone that he showed on TV is not fake. He might have been rebellious but never fake. He never hid his true emotions. He was always up front, straight up… and that is something that can never change.
I know the public and the fans and I am listening to your opinions. But the most important thing is that Jaebum is not 2PM’s Park Jaebum but a child, a teenager Jaebum.
I genuinely wish for you all to hold his decision true.
I apologize once more.
JYP
c:love-monster
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Okay, now I can figure out what to do...I'm still kind of sad, but at least I know JYP's side to it, so I'm no longer mad at him. I knew he had to have known and trusted Jay in order to put him as the leader of 2PM, I just need confirmation. If anyone knows Jay, it's gotta be him, they've been working together for as long as Jay was in Korea. At least I know how sad he was that Jay left, and that he knew Jay well enough to not put up a fight, but wanting him to stay.
Some fans have decided to boycott JYP and 2PM until Jay returns, and I admit, I really did consider this...out of anger, sadness, the shock...but now I know that doing that won't help at all. It's as bad as those anti-netizens posting those comments about Jay and taking what he said out of proportion.
WE CAN'T LET THEM WIN!!!!!
We need to be behind 2PM more than ever, letting those stupid people know that no matter what our idols do, we will still love them, because they are human beings, not people born to be perfectly entertaining, with no kind of flaws whatsoever. I know, a lot of people said that Jay would want us to support his group members. We can't let the rest of the group suffer, they're already suffering enough by losing their leader, their hyung...their friend, and brother. We as HOTTEST fans need to be there to support them, to show our love and loyalty for them.
liney @ Asian Fanatics suggested this, and I wholeheartedly agree with her:
As fans:
Even if they go ahead with the comeback with just 6 of them:
1. Continue chanting the cheers as usual beginning with Park Jaebum's name.
2. Korean fans can emphasize the SEVEN members of 2pm by listing all their names on the placards/banners during the performances.
3. Let JYP know that the fans r ready to accept and embrace Jay when he's ready...right into the arms of 2pm and the Hottest...
4. Suggest these to 2pm-:
- The new leader should refrain from identifying himself as the leader during the greetings or he could label himself as 'asst leader" or "captain". The title leader rightfully belong to Jay.
- Leave a gap in the middle when thanking the fans after performances. It's to signal to Jay that that will forever be his place. It's up to him to decide when he'll reclaim that place and complete the formation.
- Support and encourage Jay.
So...what do u say about these? We should do something concrete to show that Jay will always be part of 2pm even as time passes by..
That sounds like a great idea, doesn't it? Makes me wish I thought of it myself...LOL. But it's all the same, we should let them know that Jay will always be a part of 2PM, whether he is physically there or not, and we know Jay will be following up on the progress of his group members, so he'll be able to see or hear that the fans haven't and won't forget about him.
It is sad that this happened, and I feel so bad for him, but I think we have to move on strongly, for 2PM, all 7 of them. It's not like Jay is gone, he's still here, just not a part of the group, but he's physically here, thank God for that. I'm glad that stupid and cruel petition didn't discourage him enough to listen to it. I'm glad the only thing he chose to do was to leave the group and go back home, to not burden the rest of his group, and to go and be the kind of man he wants to be without anyone giving him any slack for it.
Once a HOTTEST, always a HOTTEST!!! That will never change, even if it's down to just one member...