NOTE: im NOT the actual TS. TS wishes to be anonymous

ok well , theres this guy that i've been seeing since this halloween .
hes 19 at a good university and i'm still in the tenth grade at the high school he graduated from .
and it hasnt been long since we've been together , and i've already fallen really hard for him .

but the problem is , he is from china . and its not like hes gunna stay in canada forever .. because something bad and serious has happened and hes for sure that his parents are gunna make him go back someday soon , maybe after january and its not like we are super serious or anything because of a past relationship for him , its not something he wants right now . but we're still together like letting things flow and stuff .

but i still wanna be with him , because after the stories about him that hes told me , i believe its best if i stay with him . and he said he couldnt guarantee that i wont get hurt . and i know i will for sure . but i'm willing to go through with that . but i dont know what to do , because i think i'm doing the right thing , but i'm not sure how things for me and him will turn out ..
what do you guys think of all this ?

What is there so serious that he think it can hurt you if you stay with him?
If both of you really want each other to be together, there is always a way to continue this relationship!

I'm sorry, but if you do get hurt it's because you allowed it. People dont' actually "fall" in terms of supposed love. It's a crush/passion/lust phase. Don't be fooled, use your logic.

I wouldn't be so open to openning your entire self to him knowing he will eventually go back and leave you. There isn't any point unless you do go with him. But I don't see that happening at all.

All I would do is just allow the fun between you two to continue before he heads home. You will discover yourself more in the mean time and so will he about likes and dislikes. I'd just take it as having fun while getting to know a friend.

Relationship that is long distance, I wouldn't really see a possibility since he probably wont ever see you again. People do tend to move on by finding another person in their life. Unless he does move back, then there's a possibility, but there's also a possibility that he's changed into a new path of life that could possibly not be where you're headed.

So you've got your pros and your cons. It's mainly up to you to decide what's best. Whether it's right or wrong, look at your heart, will you regret getting to know such a great guy? I doubt that, but you will regret leaving him just because.

when in doubt about something with love/lust/passion/relationships, always ask if your heart can you get past the guilt feeling of doing something, if you can't then you should know your answer.

you're too young to be thinking about b/f g/f like that. you still have a big life ahead of you.