Guest_praying for vicnb_*
Oct 29 2005 9 36 AM

Appreciating the concern for Barbie with regards to Vic and his past gf XWL.
They had a different kind of relationship, she wanted to be close to Vic...she liked the perks...she did not love the same way Vic did nor did he understand what she wanted. She would change her mood. The relationship started having problems in April and May, the same time Barbie and Blue were. It was also around the same time VnB went to China, I think both of them needed help from each other with regard to their gf/xbf, thus the 4/5 hour talk(s?).
The result was Barbie's new look and Vic breaking up with XWL, unfortunately she didn't clearly understand or thought it was a cooling off period. Thus all the "ugly" Rumors (cheating, depression, cutting self, crying, etc.) which seem to keep coming. Were they said to help her keep the perks for being associated with Vic,only she and her managers know for sure or bitterness?
The 1st car crash, as Barbie said about the 2nd one, was actually a blessing, because it brought the truth out. The truth about Vic and XWL status, the truth about what type of person XWL was/wasn't to Vic, All the Rumors came from who's "Friends" why would Vic's true friends say any of those things about Vic to the press?

But the most wonderful truth came when Barbie came immediately to the accident, she saw the car, she saw Vic....she hugged him, I think they hugged each other in a deep embarrass of thankfulness he was unhurt, and a deep realization of what they meant to each other....They loved each other, not like
brother and sister, but Spiritually their relationship had transcend that of gf/bf...
the relationships they had just broken up with...they had been buddies, now they
had become even closer confidantes....

And their love story was waiting to begin...what did the future hold for them,unlimited possibilities for them!

Barbie began to wear the necklace...Vic had the black band...
I think they tried to wait abit before dating to show respect to their xgf/xbf and to
show respect for each other....because the "cheating" rumor was all over the papers. And we got to be apart of their story and all the controveries. Oh the
perks of being a FAN.

So Barbie & Vic's relationship is very different than Vic & WXL.
They meet before Meteor Garden was even completed. They talked and became friends. Their friendship was so unique & special even they didn't know what to do with it, so they became brother/sister. All the while cherishing each other
for this special understanding they had of each other. As Vic has said they found they had many things in common in how they think, see things, laugh at things and feel things.

So where they are go from here depends on Vic N B. They both feel family is very important, so support from their families will help them ...friends are very important, so support from all their friends will help them....Their love, character, honesty, courage, determination and patience toward each other will keep them be
strong together...and me, I'll keep praying for God to help them along and give
them wisdom to enable them to travel together ....forever if possible.