
dear f4 precious pearl
You sound like a very good friend!
Tell her not to believe all the rumors and wait for Vic to come out
say something.
If the "vicnb" is the only thing that comes between you two,
and you enjoy this person as a friend, then just tell her
you appreciate her opinion but you have a different a
perspective and agree to disagree and talk about subjects you
both agree on.
You can't control other's feelings.
But you can control and have respect for your own feelings!
For yourself, know what you want to feel and think and
be confident in how you want to be a fan and view them!
If this person won't respect you and seems to drag you
down...maybe separate for a time and see if you want to
continue the friendship. Be honest and fair to/with yourself,
if/when you find you have to re-evaluate your friendship.
I respect you and your earnestness to be fair to Barbie and
give VicnB a chance...the future is in their hands!
Take care and god bless you!