[zzZzzz6681]

nvm

This post has been edited by Gstar: 04 October 2006 - 01:39 PM

[brule]

i kinda want to know this too... or u can wait for the other person to ask u out.. lol

[ChineseEyezGuh]

from what i've seen, the guy's/girl's friend would send the message to the "special" person first. then they would ask the girl/boy out.

[sugarisallineed]

you could always do the original thing, write a love letter. kinda old fashioned though, haha. be their secret admirer...=]

[iCanFly]

well you can always ask for their number.. I think that should be 1st step..
and then you call them soon but not too soon and not too late...
ah.. then you can setup a date.
simple as that? sounds simple hey? hahaha

[kaizter]

why dont you try to give the girl a rose and say... "do you want to go out with me"?

[stephanieshieh]

Hrm. Well, I've never personally picked up boys/chicks at a bar (because I haven't been to a bar before), but this probably applies to like asking a stranger out? I guess you could try talking to her first and seeing if you two are compatiable or if there's any mutual interest. And if there is, just (do it like they do on tv!) and ask her for her phone number!

[usagi654]

Be casual and yourself. Fakeness is a turnoff. Try just talking to the other person and then casually slip in hey would you like to meet up for ______ (coffee, lunch, movie etc) sometime.

[aZnLoVa]

First, you gotta be sure that he/she likes you too. If he or she does, den u can ask them however you like and they will accept it. But yea, baq to ur question. You can make some jokes about asking her out, den makin it real. Or, you can go some where nice and quiet to chat. Talk about love and everythin, sit closer and closer den u finish it up by holdin the hips. If she doesnt refuse, shes urs. you don't always have to ask, you can sometimes do it by action. But i guess asking her would make it offical

[SW_MYLOVE]

always do it in person.. never do it like on yahoo, msn, etc. alright then like the person above me said, make sure he/she likes you, so you won't get too disappointed if you're rejected. talk about his/her past relationships and stuff, then just 'slip' it in..

[VickiZhao]

well, I'd personally start off with hellos for strangers and ask about some not direct questions, like what they were doing or study blah blah blah. Make a few jokes here and there, try to make her feel comfortable. You can't get anywhere if you uneasy. So you play around and see how much she is into you and try to get her number, MSN or ICQ whatever you use. Try to talk to her more and ask her out for lunch or coffee or something. Do some shopping and then try to get some group movies going. Walk close by her and see what her reactions are. If she holds your hands, all is good. If she doesn't you might try to find an opportunity to hold hers.
Girls...hmm...Well be straight about it. Walk up and kiss or hug them after you know them. Guys won't take offence to that as easily as girls unless they are with somebody. If they go along then good for you, if not hey, at least you kiss them right Hahaha, I think this is more a guys channel since girls are better at picking up cues, so don't take the girl's tips seriously

[bb_blueboy3]

nO GutS, NO GLORY.

Its like the lottery. If you don't buy a ticket, you'll never win.

Just do it man. None of that cheesy stuff. This is the 21st century. Just go for it. Treat him or her like a friend. Get to know them. Than just ask them out for a cup of coffee or dinner. No pressure.

Don't say "wanna go for a date to ...."

Just be yourself and say "do you want to go for a drinK? Coffee?

If you get shot down, who cares? Their loss cuz you are a great person, right? Besides, lots of other people out there who will want to go out with you.

[angelic_soul]

I personally like someone who's taking it slow, but yet at the same time s tright forward. It's quite attractive for me& touching. You should just talk the person and get straight to the point, not beating around the bushes..because that can get really annoying, which is a turn off.

[Cheesiie]

Do what you feel like..dont be a tryhard.

[cutiecutie]

Hmm...asking a girl/guy out for a meal maybe?? Or movies!! It works eventually rather than asking her/him do u wana go on a date with me?? He/she might freaked out!! Haha

[maxxy]

dinner, movie, been an old time trick.. but it always work....may be sports or even sight seeing...

[Lilin]

Heh. I have the same problem.
I know its not easy but I'm more of a stalker hehe.
First try to find out what kind of person they want to date. That would be huge advantage. Find out first if you will get rejected before u do. If you don't feel like you have the chance now don't ask just yet. Wait a while until you have known that person enough to say hi everytime you see them. Then ask them out after you feel comfortable. Your not sick, you look good, put on deodorant, nothin in your teeth, no stinky breath, no needing to pee or poop.
Remeber nothing will happen if you don't ask.