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How to tell if a guy playing games or starting to lose interest?


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#1 rachelb

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Posted 17 September 2006 - 01:26 PM

How do you tell if a guy is playing games with you, playing hard to get or simply starting to losing interest? What's the difference (ie. give me some examples) I can never tell!

Edited by rachelb, 17 September 2006 - 01:29 PM.


#2 miranda

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Posted 19 September 2006 - 10:35 PM

to be honest, this is a difficult post to reply to because there are so many MANY signs that you can read and also mis-read if you're overly sensitive.

The dating game is a game (hate it or like it). The objective is to be mysterious, playful and teasing, all the while keeping your interest interested in you without giving up too much control.

For me, the best sign that he's still interested is if I ask him to help me with something, he would do it for me. If I'm online and ignores him, he would be the first person to chat with me (not all the time, but most of the time...)

#3 etiologic

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Posted 19 September 2006 - 11:47 PM

Games is in your head sometimes in that maybe he was never really that interested.

If he is interested, he will find a way to talk to you. If he isn't, then he won't talk to you.

#4 mumbxxx

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Posted 20 September 2006 - 12:18 AM

Get him to buy all your tampons.
Get him to hold your purse for you a lot.
Get him to wear a thong for your enjoyment.

#5 wwp8

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Posted 20 September 2006 - 01:50 AM

Get him to buy all your tampons.
Get him to hold your purse for you a lot.
Get him to wear a thong for your enjoyment.



WTF..!!!!! ewwwwww gross.

i bet you are single.

if the guy loses interest.. he will change from what he used to do..
ie if you used to say "i'm hungry" and he would before get you something to eat" but recent;y just can't be bothered .. the relationship is dying down..

theres tons.....
but i won't spill out our secrets ...hehhe

#6 arvid

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Posted 20 September 2006 - 03:23 AM

One way to tell if the guy is losing interest in you is if he starts treating you the same way he treats other female friends.

#7 frap

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Posted 20 September 2006 - 09:37 AM

stops teasing you in the fashion he used to.
he stops starting conversations with you and you have to do it.
His replies become shorter.

#8 chaynce

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Posted 20 September 2006 - 12:08 PM

...you will know when you know...its loves cousin...you cant explain it...its something you feel.

#9 miranda

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Posted 20 September 2006 - 08:56 PM

Get him to buy all your tampons.
Get him to hold your purse for you a lot.
Get him to wear a thong for your enjoyment.


If you're posting or replying for the sake of replying for AFz then please do not in the future.

Your post is both absurd and ridiculous.

#10 writer1986

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Posted 02 October 2006 - 08:47 PM

What signs have you been getting from him? Guys are weird and hard to understand, though they see us women as computers. They do things thinking we see it from their perspective. He may just be too busy to respond the way he used to. My guy friends say a guy does all he can to get a girl, and when he has her he just stops showing off and settles down to calm air. Getting a girl must be hard work. Anyhow, have a chat with your guy. If there's still a spark in your conversations, I'd say you're still good.

#11 MRDragon

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Posted 02 October 2006 - 09:09 PM

this goes for both guys and girls, you can't really tell.
if you like someone you can never read the person. when they say "love is blind" its true, except you don't know if its love or it isn't at all.
unless the person tells you straight upfront, then you'd get the message

#12 liljenn

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Posted 02 October 2006 - 10:57 PM


when he starts to ignore you
pay less attention to you
and when he doesnt have time for you
thats when you know he's either lost intrest
or found someone else they are intrested in
and want to spend time one
because if a guy adores you
no matter how busy they are
they would still find some room just to talk to you
or let you know they are there
and how much you mean to them etcs
but once it stops
its a signal



#13 Topnotch(LAUJ)

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Posted 04 October 2006 - 09:51 PM

THEIR LOTS AND LOTS OF REASON....CAUSE NOT EVERY GUYS ARE THE SAME..... WE TEND TO BE ALITTLE DIFFERENT BUT WE ALL SHARE THE SAME AND MAIN THING IN COMMON ....GIRLS.......WHEN GUYS STARTS TO LOSE INTEREST IS BY THE WAY HE ACT.....DOEN'T CALL THAT MUCH.......TEND TO CHANGE ALOT..AND I MEAN ALOT....DOESN'T RETURN PHONE CALLS.....THERES MORE BUT I THINK GIRLS SHOULD KNOW BY THEN.........

#14 Ic3 BeRg

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Posted 05 October 2006 - 02:18 AM

a guy will started to treat u differently such as being cold to you, less calls, short response for ur answers and chatted with u very shortly..this is the sign when a guy is getting bored of u...

#15 *sOLaCe*

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Posted 05 October 2006 - 02:57 AM

he will treat you coldly, ignore you, every actions that he used to do will change, make you have the feel that he just dont wan to have any concern with you..less care..everything will be less.that will signify the dying down of the interest/relationship

#16 saikano

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Posted 05 October 2006 - 04:08 AM

so everything changes?...there this guy who drives me around a lot when i ask, but recently he's been acting really cold and ignores me; but when i ask for help, he'll come..if he hates me that much, why does he bother? is he doing it just out of courtesy?

#17 VickiZhao

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Posted 05 October 2006 - 05:47 AM

Well, the obvious one is if he is avoiding you and your calls. If he gets easily annoyed with you and yells at you for quite a while with no particular reason. These are all open to interpretation though. The only way to know for sure for sure is, if he's still stiff with you then yes. If he isn't your screwed.
Mind games are played differently by everybody, so can't really help you there.

#18 riceboi17

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Posted 07 October 2006 - 09:41 PM

A guy is playing games or playing hard to get when he calls you sometimes but not often or flirts with you sometimes but not often.