How long can you stay mad at someone?
Posted 16 July 2008 - 08:18 PM
What is the longest that someone got mad at you?
Posted 16 July 2008 - 11:19 PM
What did you say exactly? 3 months is pretty long. I usually can't stay mad at people for too long, I'd either get really really angry...for like a day or something then forget about it. Unless it was something really bad.
Posted 17 July 2008 - 12:16 AM
Posted 17 July 2008 - 12:44 AM
I've only held a grudge once and that was for maybe 3 weeks. but he was holding the same grudge against me.
One of my old friends is still holding a grudge against me and it's been years. I guess u can't even call that a grudge anymore, it's more like ex-friends.
Edited by 은혁+비셔, 17 July 2008 - 12:44 AM.
Posted 17 July 2008 - 01:18 AM
Posted 17 July 2008 - 02:01 AM
I had a friend who had a grudge against me for 1.5 years... although I think it was more like... she was mad at me for 6 months and then for the next year, she didn't know how to approach me because of her pride. She isn't the type of person who would give in / admit that she was wrong easily.
Posted 17 July 2008 - 06:05 AM
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Posted 19 July 2008 - 12:31 PM
But as I grew older, I slowly learnt to be more forgiving and carefree. Why waste your time staying mad at someone? I seem to have problems with forgiving people for what they do but I never take insults seriously, I always laugh it off because it's just not worth getting worked up over it.
But like everyone else said, it really does depend on what you did/said.
Posted 20 July 2008 - 04:04 AM
Posted 20 July 2008 - 04:56 AM
well it depends on what they did to make me mad. if they are just being stupid then i would get mad for that moment and then move on with life 30 mins of so later.
but if they did something to actually hurt me emotionally or physically then i will keep grudges and comes back around to hurt them back. but once i am even im done with being mad too
Posted 20 July 2008 - 03:13 PM
I guess it also depends on what they have done. I am actually still not talking to someone (from 8 years ago)
Posted 21 July 2008 - 02:22 AM
But if it's a big problem, it'll be like... forever? If they're lucky I might forgive them.
Posted 21 July 2008 - 03:28 AM
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Posted 21 July 2008 - 03:38 PM
But well, glad that the both of you had patch up.
Be more cautious with your words next time! Remember to think twice before speaking!
Edited by Celest, 21 July 2008 - 03:42 PM.
Posted 21 July 2008 - 03:40 PM
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Posted 23 July 2008 - 06:57 AM
talk about a massive grudge..
Edited by KFCBOY, 23 July 2008 - 06:58 AM.
Posted 23 July 2008 - 09:03 PM
Posted 23 July 2008 - 11:43 PM
How can some people can stay mad for so long? There is one time I say something wrong to this girl, she was mad and didn't answer my phone calls, blocked me on social network, avoided me on any friend's events, and didn't accept my apologies till three months later. Why take them so long?
What is the longest that someone got mad at you?
i can stay mad for a long time if i dont really care about the person. i can end all ties if i wanted to and not really care. but as for my bf, i like him, so the longest i have stayed mad at him was 3-4 days.. i wanted to make it longer but it is kind of hard to when you need to get 'some' if you know what i mean.
Posted 25 July 2008 - 12:54 PM
Edited by Lena ♥, 25 July 2008 - 02:16 PM.
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Posted 25 July 2008 - 07:17 PM
after that im not mad...just frustrated.
lol. always think back to what my parents taught me --- "there's no point in staying mad at someone because while you're here being mad, the person who you're being mad at doesn't feel anything at all. So why waste your energy when it's not going to affect him/her?"
Posted 25 July 2008 - 08:11 PM
Posted 26 July 2008 - 03:12 AM
like even if i'm mad i'll bug the person....
so probably like an hour or so....then i wont be mad anymore....even if i was really angry b4..
i think it's hard to stay mad at ppl for longer than that
Posted 26 July 2008 - 01:51 PM
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Posted 26 July 2012 - 04:28 PM
I can go like that years. I dont talk to my uncles, not even say hello when we see on our family meetings.
Posted 26 July 2012 - 06:46 PM
He knows where I am, if he doesn't contact me, then its his loss!
Posted 15 August 2012 - 05:02 AM
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Posted 25 August 2012 - 08:25 PM
But I do have some people I HATE. Best-friend who slept with my girlfriend. Father who slept with my other girlfriend. Mother who threw me out when I was a baby. And a few more. I forgave them all. Dunno don't care. But recently one added to the list, and I quickly found peace after forgiving her, and now dunno don't care.