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#1 joe45

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Posted 30 June 2009 - 01:26 AM

do you find there a culture shock between dating white girls and asian girls. i like to hear espcially if your an westernized aisan guy or american or canadian born asian.

i heard asian girls especially the hk girls are all about status,face, money, what school you went to when looking and dating a guy---not sure about the rest or other asians, but i like to hear. flippno? korean i believe is similar to hk but not too sure.
i heard its not as much for the japanese not sure.

the westernized and white culture they don;t care as much about status and money-and more into the character of the person and if you click with her

what have you found the difference between dating white girls and asian girls.

like to hear your thoughts on the different culture and values and differences between the 2. are hk culture similar to korean, japanese. flippno or what.....etc

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Posted 30 June 2009 - 04:56 PM

View Postjoe45, on Jun 29 2009 6 26 PM, said:

do you find there a culture shock between dating white girls and asian girls. i like to hear espcially if your an westernized aisan guy or american or canadian born asian.

i heard asian girls especially the hk girls are all about status,face, money, what school you went to when looking and dating a guy---not sure about the rest or other asians, but i like to hear. flippno? korean i believe is similar to hk but not too sure.
i heard its not as much for the japanese not sure.

the westernized and white culture they don;t care as much about status and money-and more into the character of the person and if you click with her

what have you found the difference between dating white girls and asian girls.

like to hear your thoughts on the different culture and values and differences between the 2. are hk culture similar to korean, japanese. flippno or what.....etc

There's really not that much of a difference, It really depends on the individual. It isn't right for me to generalize the ethnicity based on the girls I've dated. Everyone is different after all and every personality type exists in every ethnicity. Also I'm around way more white girls than Asian girls, so I have less experience with different Asian cultures. I do find myself more comfortable around white girls though generally, because of the way I grew up in comparison to Asian girls from Asia.

Edited by edartist, 30 June 2009 - 05:05 PM.


#3 xiaolongbao

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Posted 30 June 2009 - 05:33 PM

I find myself attracted to Chinese girls who are less "westernized" and Caucasian girls who are a bit "Easternized". Those are the ones I've ended up with. Even though I grew up in America, Chinese culture and values are extremely important to me. I guess that affects my taste in the opposite sex as well. They must have some appreciation for Chinese culture.

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Posted 30 June 2009 - 11:41 PM

I'm not an Asian dude, but I'd just like to throw in the fact that I think it depends on the caucasian girl when it comes to money, power, and status. Some white girls are really snobby. D:

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Posted 01 July 2009 - 04:50 PM

View Postlovepolkadots43, on Jun 30 2009 5 41 PM, said:

I'm not an Asian dude, but I'd just like to throw in the fact that I think it depends on the caucasian girl when it comes to money, power, and status. Some white girls are really snobby. D:
I don't think it's just asian girls that are snobby, it's girls in general. It's the vagina complex!

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Posted 01 July 2009 - 09:52 PM

hong kong girls are definitely materialistic.

but thats just hong kong in general.

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Posted 06 April 2011 - 02:34 PM

Not all korean are depending on money, face of the guy, and other. My girlfriend is a kind, nice, humble korean girl she is not depending on money, face of the guy and other because she know what is life of being nobody (she lived in a rich family) i would say that korean girls shy at first but if you know them she will not shy anymore and in the filipino guys tend to be romantic and in the girls they want to play hard to get but it depends

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#8 Goldencarp

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Posted 06 April 2011 - 07:06 PM

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I think HK and Korean girls are too materialistic, and if I went to Asia, other than Japanese girls ... I'm not sure how well I would connect with girls in Asia. What I like about Jap girls is they're really cute or youthful, both looks and personality

Unless a girl is familiar with western culture, it's hard to imagine going out with her

Not that I don't like some Asian things, of course I do, but I grew up here so ... yeah

As for white girls, they can't be like completely insecure or intolerant of Asians, otherwise I rather not have to be around anyone like that. We may be different in some ways, but we're still all human, and it's not as if all of us have an accent or can't understand English.
I think some whites are sort of "extra conservative" around us, because they probably feel unsure of us / not sure how to act around us or some probably generalize we're "all oversensitive". Especially when it comes to minorities, many people try not to offend us, and they shouldn't ... but I think that "extra bit of fear or uncertainty" makes people a bit "too extra socially conservative", so they don't quite act the same as they would around their own race ... and I think it's like that for all races, in general

Like, how often do non-Asians joke around with you, and share some laughs? For some of us, it probably doesn't happen too often. As long as it isn't anything quite very ignorant or immature ... I guess a sense of humour is okay. When I joke, I joke.
It's not meant to be serious.

In general, I don't want people to be too shy to talk or laugh with me. If you show "out of the shell", then perhaps I will adjust to it, or at least try to, eventually. If people seem really cool, and natural, then it should be able to make people feel more comfortable. Even if it doesn't always make people more talkative or completely open (at least maybe not at the time), it should at least make them more comfortable

I'm someone who's willing to work with more quiet / shy people, as long as they come out more out of the shell, eventually and hopefully. As long as the communication is at least "fair and decent", then I should be able to work with / get along with them, if not better.

If there's some people that just don't seem to want to, no matter what, that's fine ... but I won't be that close to them


If I had to basically describe myself, I guess I'm sort of more like a white guy, since I grew up here all my life, familiar with some
Asian culture and "traits", but not as much as FOBs. I'm familiar with western food, movies, music, TV (well, at least up until several months ago. I don't have cable TV right now), etc.


Unless you speak an ethnic language, I think language is a main barrier for most people. If I knew the language well, then I could really joke with them more and talk better ... otherwise, mostly basic talk, if at all. It really depends on how well educated the person is with the language, it varies with some people ... just like some people can barely the language, some are fluent, and some in between, more or less

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#9 ZeurasianZ

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Posted 16 April 2011 - 01:00 PM

View Postnj0ywatch1np0rn, on 01 July 2009 - 04:50 PM, said:

I don't think it's just asian girls that are snobby, it's girls in general. It's the vagina complex!


It's a sad fact, unfortunately; but what my friend's messed up dad told me as a youngster is the truth about the superficial - mean ones(women). "If you treat them like dirt; they'll stick like mud." I just never wanted mud on me, so I let those kinds of chicks walk right on past.

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Posted 18 April 2011 - 04:50 AM

Well from my experience i find white girls much more open with things,where as the asians i have dated tend to have too much drama about things :STUPID
And about the status,i think that all depends on the person itself,some will care,some not as much.

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Posted 19 May 2011 - 08:21 PM

Also there is differences to date white girls. American culture, English culture, German, Swedish, Croatian, Italian are all different. There is huge differences with white girls. I believe it is same with colorful cultures.

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Posted 19 May 2011 - 08:27 PM

well it depends what kind of asia girls we are talking about but in general, white chicks are more open. asians tend to be more reserved and shy. but that might change if they werent the minority

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Posted 19 May 2011 - 10:14 PM

View Postjoe45, on 30 June 2009 - 01:26 AM, said:

do you find there a culture shock between dating white girls and asian girls. i like to hear espcially if your an westernized aisan guy or american or canadian born asian.

i heard asian girls especially the hk girls are all about status,face, money, what school you went to when looking and dating a guy---not sure about the rest or other asians, but i like to hear. flippno? korean i believe is similar to hk but not too sure.
i heard its not as much for the japanese not sure.

the westernized and white culture they don;t care as much about status and money-and more into the character of the person and if you click with her

what have you found the difference between dating white girls and asian girls.

like to hear your thoughts on the different culture and values and differences between the 2. are hk culture similar to korean, japanese. flippno or what.....etc

Filipina girl from Philippines are quite different from HK girls

3 basic neccesities you need for filipina.

you will have to ligaw or court...pinays are serious about relationships..alot of them don't have time to play games because they their family to support
you must have a stable job that can support a family
you must be willing to start a family
You don't need to be a satus symbol or have lots of money..
one characteristic is filipinas are much less vocal then koreans, hk, japanese..which causes a perception that filipinas are more submissive....but in actuallity they r just following a verse in the bible that women should listen to their husbands

average joe korean dude with a younger above average filipina wife
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#14 Olive Juice

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Posted 25 May 2011 - 05:41 AM

Here's ONE different between dating a white girl comparing to dating an asian girl... from my own experience and this isn't to generalize or to compare. It's just a subtle difference with some that is a big deal to me.

White Girl: "You know what Olie? I'm down with living our lives the ways we want to live for our happiness!"

Asian Girl: "... But my mom, my father, my grandparents and my ancestors said I should live blah blah blah blah blah..."

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Posted 28 May 2011 - 01:55 AM

View PostOlive Juice, on 25 May 2011 - 05:41 AM, said:


Asian Girl: "... But my mom, my father, my grandparents and my ancestors said I should live blah blah blah blah blah..."


I DON'T give a sh*t. I'm in it for "our" happiness, not merely what your family thinks. Your "family standards" don't come first, or matter as much, certainly not before what I want in a relationship

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#16 lionheart

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Posted 28 May 2011 - 12:33 PM

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Filipina girl from Philippines are quite different from HK girls

3 basic neccesities you need for filipina.

you will have to ligaw or court...pinays are serious about relationships..alot of them don't have time to play games because they their family to support
you must have a stable job that can support a family
you must be willing to start a family
You don't need to be a satus symbol or have lots of money..
one characteristic is filipinas are much less vocal then koreans, hk, japanese..which causes a perception that filipinas are more submissive....but in actuallity they r just following a verse in the bible that women should listen to their husbands

well, people in the philippines is using western culture mixed with asian culture

if we talk about dating, filipino/filipina is using a western culture so that is why they dont depend on the status, money, or face of the guy

Edited by lionheart, 28 May 2011 - 12:34 PM.


#17 Olive Juice

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Posted 28 May 2011 - 10:20 PM

View PostGoldencarp, on 28 May 2011 - 01:55 AM, said:



I DON'T give a sh*t. I'm in it for "our" happiness, not merely what your family thinks. Your "family standards" don't come first, or matter as much, certainly not before what I want in a relationship


:thumbsup

That's what I'm fucken talking about. I like girls who know what they want and not afraid to go about getting it as oppose to girls who live by ideas and standards fed to them.

Edited by Olive Juice, 28 May 2011 - 10:35 PM.


#18 ejay1

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Posted 29 May 2011 - 12:57 PM

View Postlionheart, on 28 May 2011 - 12:33 PM, said:

well, people in the philippines is using western culture mixed with asian culture

if we talk about dating, filipino/filipina is using a western culture so that is why they dont depend on the status, money, or face of the gy


actually those qualities are not from the west..if it were so then why are asian guys having problems getting girls in the west?? Those qualities are actually of a humble rural setting...not metropolitan city style

the materialistic qualities such as status symbol, must be uber rich, and must be well endowed are western influences
well in the west you don't need to be uber rich or status symbol..all you need to have is a huge d-ck and white, black, latin, indian, etc girls will all be over you

Edited by ejay1, 29 May 2011 - 01:01 PM.


#19 Goldencarp

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Posted 31 May 2011 - 10:44 PM

well, that's an easy thing to say, but for most Asian guys, and basically anyone without the "huge" dick (and by that, I mean like in most pornos, which varies anyway) ... we have to have other ways of making up for it. and no, not having that "huge porno size" dick, doesn't mean you can't be good at sex

hey, it' s not just size that matters but how you use it ...


fact is, a man has to be confident in his worth, whether it's about sex or not

Edited by Goldencarp, 31 May 2011 - 10:45 PM.


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Posted 07 June 2011 - 03:31 PM

I am not an Asian dude but I am more attracted to Asian girls way more than white girls. Reason is simple Asian girls are much more beautiful looking, more graceful in general just hotter, a lot of white girls are really really superfical & selfish it's all about them. Just my opinion,,,,,,





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