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Posted 08 December 2012 - 04:59 AM

How do u think it would feel to lose your virginity to a hot stranger?

Also, how important/sacred is virginity to you?

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Posted 08 December 2012 - 05:12 AM

This is a viewpoint coming from a girl. Naturally I was raised to be conservative and I've lost count of how many times people have told me to hold off on it and wait for the "right" person.

I didn't lose mine until I was 19 to a boyfriend (who proved he cared for me but I didn't love him). being raised to believe virginity is such a big deal makes your expectations so high. So when you lose it, it's like "that's it?!" And your first time is probably the worst sex you have (pleasure wise).

Now I think you should just lose your virginity when you are ready. If you are sexually attracted to a guy (you don't even have to be dating him) and you trust him - go for it. Nothing is more dumb than i) trusting him and (ii) being sexually attracted to him but holding off on sex just because he is not your boyfriend or you haven't dated xx months or he needs to prove/earn it. If the atmosphere is right, sexual connection is there, I see no reason not to go for it.

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Posted 08 December 2012 - 06:06 AM

until now, i was the first for 4 different girls. and these are what you would consider the stereotypical "conservative asian" girls. virginity isn't "sacred" or important, it doesnt mean a thing. but some girls just don't know it yet. the question is, can you make them believe that. thats pretty much what it means to have "game".

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Posted 08 December 2012 - 09:02 AM

View Postclara, on 08 December 2012 - 04:59 AM, said:

How do u think it would feel to lose your virginity to a hot stranger?

Also, how important/sacred is virginity to you?

No, I chooced to not. My hot stranger asked, oh his long black hair, mmmmmmm but he was a jerk, lol I was so afraid of dolphins before but not so much anymore, I got 3 months treatment to that, I am not getting a shock anymore when I see a one. But it does not mean I would be ready for sex. I have to be engaged before I do sex, that is for sure. I have no need to try sex just for the try but it must be someone which is going to marry me. I was not ready to have sex earlier, I am not sure if I still am but I think if my emotional rls with him would be strong enough and he would stay no matter what I could imagine I could try it. That is much progress for me. If I would not like it, I would not try it again.

I have a weekend coming with a hot not so stranger but I have no plans to lose my virginity just because he looks hot.

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Posted 14 December 2012 - 04:31 AM

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Posted 14 December 2012 - 05:15 AM

That sucks. My condolences to you.

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Posted 15 December 2012 - 05:02 PM

Remaining a virgin until marriage is often considered a noble (and rare!) thing...., but if it's not what you want anymore.... don't wait until marriage... but do it with someone you love and care about. There are sub-groups and sub-cultures where it may not be the norm, but take look around and see the big picture: in a free, western society, people generally have sex before marriage. There are plenty of statistics to back this up.

It is less of a big deal than what you're making it Posted Image

Your moral compass does not lie between your legs - you can be a perfectly ethical person or a total ******* regardless of whether you're a virgin, have sex with a boyfriend or have casual sex, and regardless of whether that sex is gay or straight, or both at the same time. There's no extra moral points for remaining a virgin.

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Posted 15 December 2012 - 05:46 PM

View PostXiaoli, on 15 December 2012 - 05:28 PM, said:

Further more no-one ever discusses how a long term committed relationship deepens the sexual experience with time and instead say it gets 'boring'. It doesn't!

What do you mean it doesn't? Majority of people do agree that sex gets boring after a very long time. That's why people should always take effort to 'spice' up the sex life and it takes effort on both sides.

While I agree that it is sweet and nice to discover and explore all the joys together for the first time. It is also nice to have a partner who can convey to each other what they already know they like.

I would never marry anyone who was a virgin because you don't know how sexually compatible you are (What if your partner is a 2-minture wonder? What if your partner was a starfish? What if your partner is not open to your desires and wants?). How could you agree to commit to someone without knowing/sharing this vital intimacy prior to marriage? NEED emotional intimacy and sexual compatibility for things to work. And it helps if you have experience.

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Posted 15 December 2012 - 06:21 PM

NOT to a "hot stranger" = NO.
Why? Stranger-danger ... how well do I know him, his lifestyle, his preferences, his sexual history ... to know he's not promiscuous or does not have STDs?

One night stands = NO
One night of lust ... and a lifetime of regret sometimes? NO.

To a first bf, semi-commited relationship and live in relationships - YES.


View PostGuest, on 15 December 2012 - 05:46 PM, said:

While I agree that it is sweet and nice to discover and explore all the joys together for the first time. It is also nice to have a partner who can convey to each other what they already know they like.

I would never marry anyone who was a virgin because you don't know how sexually compatible you are (What if your partner is a 2-minture wonder? What if your partner was a starfish? What if your partner is not open to your desires and wants?). How could you agree to commit to someone without knowing/sharing this vital intimacy prior to marriage? NEED emotional intimacy and sexual compatibility for things to work. And it helps if you have experience.

Agree. While it's fun to explore together ... can you imagine 2 very shy frigid virgins?
Wham ... bang, thank you madam? And the FAKE oooohs and ahhhh it's sooooooo good darling? (which makes the male ego swell - pub intended - with misplaced pride?.

Which is why it's essential to have emotional connect, understanding (perceptive sensiitivity) and communication.


View PostGuest, on 15 December 2012 - 05:46 PM, said:

What do you mean it doesn't? Majority of people do agree that sex gets boring after a very long time. That's why people should always take effort to 'spice' up the sex life and it takes effort on both sides.
Outside of that physical stimulation and spark ..... sex also gets boring if there is zilch communication (outside of the bed) and emotional disconnect.

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Posted 15 December 2012 - 07:41 PM

View Postalexann, on 15 December 2012 - 05:02 PM, said:

There's no extra moral points for remaining a virgin.

Actually virgin boys get points from me. Gigolos are something like -1000000 points and virgin boys get neutral 0 points. So they get 1000000 points from me for starters. Moral indeed, at least a virgin guy has not used any girls (yet). And usually women who choosed to be virgin does not care if other people appreciate their moral or not. Only what matters is that they stay faithfull for themselves Posted Image .

And virgin hunters are no no to me because It is not a reason to want anyone but it is involved with personal morals.

But we all appreciate different things and different kind of guys. Be happy with yours Posted Image

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Posted 15 December 2012 - 08:42 PM

View PostGuest, on 15 December 2012 - 05:46 PM, said:


I would never marry anyone who was a virgin because you don't know how sexually compatible you are (What if your partner is a 2-minture wonder? What if your partner was a starfish? What if your partner is not open to your desires and wants?). How could you agree to commit to someone without knowing/sharing this vital intimacy prior to marriage? NEED emotional intimacy and sexual compatibility for things to work. And it helps if you have experience.

You can always to take a divorce Posted Image

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Posted 16 December 2012 - 10:15 PM

View PostJSBach, on 16 December 2012 - 09:43 PM, said:

But for women, there is a window of opportunity that goes away quick. A women age 35 will not experience love, sex and romance the way she can at age 22. Those are social and physical realities. Once you miss that window, unless there's such thing as reincarnation, you would miss out forever.

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Not all are sh*t bags like you. There is passionate, loving and hot rls with matured women. Physical, lol she is 75 years old:
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One glance will explain why she has no trouble convincing others to get healthy. She only started bodybuilding at 71 and holds classes at her church inspiring other oldsters to exercise and eat right. Shepherd truly glows as she chants her mantra, “Age is nothing but a number.” She practices what she preaches, waking before dawn to run 10 miles a day with other health nuts. “If ever there were an anti-aging pill,” she says, “I would call it exercise.”

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One hundred and seventy-two and half pounds and counting. That’s how much weight a Warren teen has lost who stars in the Style Network TV Show, “Too Fat for 15.” When 17-year-old Hayley Bailiff decided to go to a school for obese teens called Wellspring in late August, she tipped the scales at 511 pounds.

I have no anything against over weight people but some 35 year old women look better than 22 years old what comes to physical matters. Love, passion and caring is not age guestion. There is hottes rls in a old peoples nursing home than teens ever can imagine... It is inside of head and not outside of a body.

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Posted 16 December 2012 - 10:19 PM

View Postzesstty, on 08 December 2012 - 05:12 AM, said:

This is a viewpoint coming from a girl. Naturally I was raised to be conservative and I've lost count of how many times people have told me to hold off on it and wait for the "right" person.

You offered an unusual perspective that one doesn't hear often, probably for fear of being called all sorts of vile names.

But I mostly agree with you...

There is no right answer over whether someone should engage in sexual activity. It's a personal choice. But people should know that, if they don't, they will miss out on meaningful experiences and being with certain people. There is just no other way to a acheive a certain level of intimacy without it.

Being an Asian forum, us Asians often have that "I need to finish school first, get married first, have a career first, etc" mentality. But for women, there is a window of opportunity that goes away quick. A women age 35 will not experience love, sex and romance in the manner and in the number of opportunities that she can at age 22. Those are social and physical realities. Once you miss that window, you would miss out forever unless there's such thing as reincarnation.

Again, there is no right answer. There are just pros and cons. People should reap the benefits and bear the costs of the decisions they make.

View PostGuest, on 16 December 2012 - 10:15 PM, said:

Physical, lol she is 75 years old:

Yes dipsh-t, all 75 year olds look like that. Posted Image
75 year olds are also generally partying and meeting eligible guys like 23 year old girls. Posted Image

I will never forgive myself for wasting 30 seconds responding to your brain-dead post.

Edited by JSBach, 16 December 2012 - 10:25 PM.


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Posted 16 December 2012 - 10:31 PM

Sex is not bad....nothing which feels so good/great is bad for you. It's when you don't take care of it when it becomes bad. When you give your body to any ole jack and john who wants it is when it becomes bad. If you are in love with the person then go ahead. Just don't use sex as a means to an end. Meaning don't think having sex with someone you are not married to means you are a couple. If you want to have one night stands with no strings and you can handle the emotional aspect of it go ahead. I know I've done some questionable things but I had fun and have no regrets about it.

When you have sex before marriage don't confuse it with this person being yours because it won't happen that way. If you want to wait all the power to ya. I applaud ya but don't think sex is bad because someone throws you away after. It's the person who is bad.

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Posted 16 December 2012 - 10:38 PM

View PostJSBach, on 16 December 2012 - 10:19 PM, said:

Yes dipsh-t, all 75 year olds look like that. Posted Image

75 year olds are also generally partying and meeting eligible guys like 23 year old girls. Posted Image


Posted ImageGuest, on 16 December 2012 - 10:15 PM, said:

It is inside of head and not outside of a body.

Tell that to the cosmetic, clothing, fashion and the fitness industry.
Edited by JSBach, Today, 10:22 PM.


Yes dipsh-t, all 75 year olds look like that. Posted Image
75 year olds are also generally partying and meeting eligible guys like 23 year old girls. Posted Image

I will never forgive myself for wasting 1 second
Edited by JSBach, Today, 10:25 PM.
30 seconds responding to your brain-dead post.

And how long it took with all of those edits Posted Image .. Not all 22 year old are good looking either and even after men no matter how hot and eligible they are... You just have to accept that fact that women are not out of the market because of age. They can and will receive love and passion. Maybe not from you but I don't think anyone would want to either. Most 30+ women are looking for eligible men and not guys like you.

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Posted 16 December 2012 - 11:19 PM

View Postmlint007, on 16 December 2012 - 10:31 PM, said:

Sex is not bad....nothing which feels so good/great is bad for you. It's when you don't take care of it when it becomes bad.

It's bad when people don't wear protection.

If I were writing a PhD dissertation in Sociology, I would explore why sexuality rates are lower amongst Asians. Is it physical or social?

There are lots of Asian girls/women whom I'm convinced are asexual. I'm not talking about 13 and 14 year olds. There are many in their 20s who get queasy when sex topics are brought up. It's not because of upbringing. They just don't have that urge or curiosity despite the barrage of sexual messages in the media.

The fact that there are asexual people is probably one reason why so many people on this forum find sex to be shocking and dirty.

I'm not saying asexual people are bad. I'm simply pointing out they exist.

View Postd, on 08 December 2012 - 06:06 AM, said:

until now, i was the first for 4 different girls. and these are what you would consider the stereotypical "conservative asian" girls. virginity isn't "sacred" or important, it doesnt mean a thing. but some girls just don't know it yet. the question is, can you make them believe that. thats pretty much what it means to have "game".

There's a reason why virginity is more "sacred" to them.

Yes, you're right when you say losing virginity isn't a big deal. Nobody raises a fuss when their dogs had sex for the first time.

But the reason women are more uptight about sex is, they endure more risk. They're the ones getting pregnant and lugging that thing around for almost a year.

Furthermore, their reproductive opportunities are limited. Whereas guys can theoreocally have infinite offsprings, she can only have a few. Not only that, but her sexuality and attractiveness goes away faster than a man's. I know women (particularly those past 25) don't like me pointing that out, but that's an unfair fact of life.

Since women have greater risk in sex and that her window to find a mate is smaller, naturally she'll be more obsessed about "finding the one" and reserving sex to that person. In short, she's more uptight about sex because her margin of error is smaller.

So you see, we can indeed explain a lot of our psychology on evolutionary science.

Edited by JSBach, 16 December 2012 - 11:19 PM.


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Posted 16 December 2012 - 11:26 PM

View PostJSBach, on 16 December 2012 - 11:19 PM, said:



It's bad when people don't wear protection.

If I were writing a PhD dissertation in Sociology, I would explore why sexuality rates are lower amongst Asians. Is it physical or social?

There are lots of Asian girls/women whom I'm convinced are asexual. I'm not talking about 13 and 14 year olds. There are many in their 20s who get queasy when sex topics are brought up. It's not because of upbringing. They just don't have that urge or curiosity despite the barrage of sexual messages in the media.

The fact that there are asexual people is probably one reason why so many people on this forum find sex to be shocking and dirty.

I'm not saying asexual people are bad. I'm simply pointing out they exist.

I don't know considering China and Japan have a huge underground porn scene...but from talking to friends who live in China. He and I have very different value systems regarding sex and women. It's like an abomination where we don't talk about it anymore because he believes woman behaving in a certain manner which will embarrass the family should lead to death....so in that regard its more social.

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Posted 16 December 2012 - 11:34 PM

^ I'm talking about asexual females in the West who grew up barraged by sexual images but yet has that impulsive disgust when it comes to screwing.

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Posted 16 December 2012 - 11:40 PM

^^^ Oh, my bad...carry on....

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Posted 17 December 2012 - 12:56 AM

View PostJSBach, on 16 December 2012 - 10:19 PM, said:

You offered an unusual perspective that one doesn't hear often, probably for fear of being called all sorts of vile names.

But I mostly agree with you...

There is no right answer over whether someone should engage in sexual activity. It's a personal choice. But people should know that, if they don't, they will miss out on meaningful experiences and being with certain people. There is just no other way to a acheive a certain level of intimacy without it.

Being an Asian forum, us Asians often have that "I need to finish school first, get married first, have a career first, etc" mentality. But for women, there is a window of opportunity that goes away quick. A women age 35 will not experience love, sex and romance in the manner and in the number of opportunities that she can at age 22. Those are social and physical realities. Once you miss that window, you would miss out forever unless there's such thing as reincarnation.

Again, there is no right answer. There are just pros and cons. People should reap the benefits and bear the costs of the decisions they make.

I think it's a great thing for women to explore their sexuality (of course only when they are ready) and in a healthy and safe way. I am not against casual sex - Having experienced that myself, it doesn't make me any more or less emotionally attached to the guy. And no, I am not a sl*t or a damaged product incapable of feelings - I just have my priorities and feelings sorted out. If I am emotionally attached to a guy, having sex will of course increase that intimacy. But if I am not emotionally attached to a guy, having sex does not change a thing at all. If you have your head on straight and already know beforehand that you will not date this guy, then having sex wouldn't make a difference. For women who do get emotionally attached after sex, they are probably not ready and don't know what they want.

I agree that there is no right or wrong answer. There are benefits and cons for every decision, you just have to make a decision that you are comfortable with.

Edited by zesstty, 17 December 2012 - 12:56 AM.


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Posted 17 December 2012 - 01:44 AM

View Postzesstty, on 17 December 2012 - 12:56 AM, said:

I am not a sl*t or a damaged product incapable of feelings - I just have my priorities and feelings sorted out.

It's too bad we have people who love to issue labels. If a girl calls a guy, she's a hoe. If a girl smokes, she's bad. If she goes clubbing, she's ghetto. If she has sex, she's a sl-t. Terribly simplistic people out there.

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Posted 17 December 2012 - 06:53 PM

NEVER! he may be hot but you don't know how "clean" he is, so can't risk of getting STDs Posted Image

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Posted 17 December 2012 - 07:30 PM

View PostKim4ever, on 17 December 2012 - 06:53 PM, said:

NEVER! he may be hot but you don't know how "clean" he is, so can't risk of getting STDs Posted Image

I wish I could rep you Posted Image The hotter looking, the surer had 10 000 girls and risks are huge!!! Would not touch even with a long stick!!!

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Posted 17 December 2012 - 07:38 PM

STDs do not come from sex. It comes from being irresponsible. With condom use, the risk of transmission is extremely low. With protection, you're far likelier to get herpes from kissing. Are you guys gonna stop kissing too?

Japan and South Korea's sex industry are legendary in size and availability. Yet, those countries aren't exactly drowning with AIDS or other STDs.

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Posted 17 December 2012 - 07:48 PM

View PostJSBach, on 17 December 2012 - 07:38 PM, said:

Are you guys gonna stop kissing too?

I never kiss with a stranger either.

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Posted 17 December 2012 - 08:19 PM

We're not talking about strangers. We're talking about people we know.

As far I can see, nobody on this thread is talking about having sex with strangers.

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Posted 17 December 2012 - 08:32 PM

View PostJSBach, on 17 December 2012 - 08:19 PM, said:

We're not talking about strangers. We're talking about people we know.

As far I can see, nobody on this thread is talking about having sex with strangers.

JS, read the title, and OP's post again carefully = "hot STRANGER"


View PostKim4ever, on 17 December 2012 - 06:53 PM, said:

NEVER! he may be hot but you don't know how "clean" he is, so can't risk of getting STDs Posted Image

Exacto . No matter how hot or desirable ... sorry = stranger means 'unknown history and sexual past''.
Sure, carpe diem. We're all supposed to live for the moment, go with the flow etc etc.

But imo, totally NOT worth the risks, and possible regret later.

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Posted 17 December 2012 - 08:35 PM

View PostJSBach, on 17 December 2012 - 08:19 PM, said:

We're not talking about strangers. We're talking about people we know.

As far I can see, nobody on this thread is talking about having sex with strangers.

Interesting since name of this thread is
"lose virginity to hot stranger"

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Posted 17 December 2012 - 09:33 PM

^ I was referring to the actual posts. I didn't see anyone actualy advocating having sex with strangers.

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Posted 17 December 2012 - 10:41 PM

View PostXiaoli, on 17 December 2012 - 10:12 PM, said:

and yet astonishingly it is impossible to catch a SEXUALLY transmitted disease WITHOUT sex!!!

Are you dumb? Sharing needles, breastfeeding and childbirth can transmit these diseases WITHOUT sex. Moron

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Posted 18 December 2012 - 12:05 AM

^ Kissing can also transmit herpes.

It's easier to get herpes from kissing than herpes from protected sex.

If it were that easy to get a STD from protected sex, almost everyone in Japan and South Korea would have a STD.

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Posted 18 December 2012 - 01:58 AM

....and you can get them from blood transfusions or giving head.....STD's or AIDS I mean...


...anyways....how'd we get here? lol

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Posted 18 December 2012 - 10:39 AM

Don't be silly. You don't have to have sex for the disease to be transmitted. You can argue that sex is arguably the most common way, but its not the only way.

Blood donors, babies, patients in hospitals, drug abusers or even medical researchers can be infected with STDS or HIV without having any form of sex.

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Posted 18 December 2012 - 06:23 PM

View PostXiaoli, on 18 December 2012 - 03:18 PM, said:

yeah right there are just thousands of those people walking around ... while the rest of the population who is engaging in unprotected sexual activity are the least problematic???

don't try the usual bullshitters approach to an unwinnable argument by attempting to introduce irrelevant facts.

The FACT is that STD's are named SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED DISEASES because they are transmitted far more than any other way SEXUALLY.

They are not called 'kissing' transmitted diseases or 'blood transfusion' transmitted diseases. Those are just alternatives that SOMETIMES happen. The entire medical community hasn't been repeatedly warning people about blood transfusions or kissing for the last 100 years (and more). The problem is primarily, first and foremost unprotected sexual activity with an already infected person who got it in the first place by having unprotected sex with some one else.

This is why you don't just sleep with ONE person but every person they slept with and every person they slept with and every person they slept with..... and the risk of contracting something goes up with every encounter, which multiplies the number of partners exponentially.

Do you think before you reply? I can't believe you are even trying to defend that HIV and STD can ONLY be transmitted through sexual activities.

Do you know how many babies have HIV or STDS because their mother is infected? And yes, there are thousands if not millions of them around the globe. Sharing a contaminated needle is also an issue with druggies and there are thousands of them around as well.

I'm just pointing out other ways that one can get contaminated with HIV or STD, don't have to be so damn hostile about it.

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View PostXiaoli, on 18 December 2012 - 03:18 PM, said:

This is why you don't just sleep with ONE person but every person they slept with and every person they slept with and every person they slept with..... and the risk of contracting something goes up with every encounter, which multiplies the number of partners exponentially.

Yes, and even our school is full of those posters, some people just seems to not get it..

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Posted 18 December 2012 - 11:35 PM

View PostXiaoli, on 18 December 2012 - 10:57 PM, said:

Mother to child transmission of HIV through breast milk is prevented by ARV's - it's a non-issue. I come from Africa where we have a VERY serious HIV infection rate. I KNOW the realities of it far better than you do.

Your 'pointing out' was an attempt to distract from people who said having sex with a stranger was a bad idea from a number of points of view. It is for that reason that I am responding strongly.

Yes you can get HIV and other diseases in ways other than through sex however those ways are IRRELEVANT when discussing having sex with a total stranger.

Don't be stupid. You don't know me, you don't know what I know and don't know. And I could care less where you come from or what your life experiences are because I simply don't give a damn. Spare me your lecture.

I know very well you are being childish about this whole issue. You made a claim that you can ONLY get HIV and STD through sex or sexual activities. I made a point that it's NOT TRUE. Calling me out for going off topic doesn't mean you are correct in your initial claim.

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Posted 18 December 2012 - 11:54 PM

View Postmi.ny.veg, on 18 December 2012 - 06:23 PM, said:

Do you know how many babies have HIV or STDS

This is why we must stop babies from having sex.

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Posted 18 December 2012 - 11:56 PM

View PostJSBach, on 18 December 2012 - 11:54 PM, said:

This is why we must stop babies from having sex.

Yes, we must.

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Posted 19 December 2012 - 08:43 PM

I don't know about other countries. In my country three most common reasons to get HIV are:

1. hetero sexual sex (count is 50% more than homosexual sex)
2. homosexual sex
3. drug needles (10 cases/10 years)

#40 Linnh

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Posted 20 December 2012 - 07:35 PM

I would so not, because when you are having sex everything should be nice, and you must feel comfortable and relaxing to feel the best in it. With a stranger I would just find it intense and not comfortable at all.




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