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#1 Together1

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Posted 05 January 2013 - 03:53 AM

Just a little bit about what is going on... My mother and grandma live together. I work in another city and come back to visit about once a month or so. Every time that I come back home I see them constantly yelling at each other. And it is progressively getting worse. These arguments always involve my grandmother saying/doing some nonsense, and my mother just doesn't have the patience for it anymore. I can understand it since I can see that it is very emotionally draining to deal it on a daily basis without support. The issues tend to revolve around my grandma's paranoia, compulsive hoarding, and being verbally abusive by twisting and making up stories. Also, she means well and tries to help out around the house, but ends up doing the opposite (cooking, washing cloth, organizing things, etc).

I desperately want to do something about this but I am really at a loss... hope you guys who have gone through something similar can offer some advice or share your experiences.

#2 UDntNeedaNo

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Posted 06 January 2013 - 07:08 AM

Let them be.

#3 Guest_Guest_*

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Posted 06 January 2013 - 09:03 AM

Say you are thicked off. Share love and peace around a house.